Expert: ***ERICA*** - 8/4/2009

Question
Before my boyfriend ended our relationship after 8 months, everything was going great. He told me loved me, i was the best thing that had ever happened to him etc. Anyway, we had a silly dis-agreement and he told me that he doesnt know if he wants to be in relationship (not just with me, with anyone) and that he doesnt know if he loves me.

We split up for 2 days then he contacted me and we met up and decided to give it another go. This only lasted a day untill he ended it again. 3 days later he got in contact again and again we decided to give it another go. This lasted a week, we went out on dates, enjoyed ourselves and it felt like it use to.
So a week later he txt me saying why was i friends with a lad i use to be with on facebook and nothing has changed and he still doesnt know what he wants. So we ended the relationship again.
About 3 days later he txt me asking me if i was alright, and that he misses me, cant stop crying, and that he is not happy. This went on for about 2 days. He asked me if he could see me and i said yes. But later on he txt me and said that he doesnt think its a good idea.
Throughout all of this he wouldnt talk to me face to face its all been done through txt message.
I dont know what to think or do im really confused because i think that part of him wants to be with me but part of him doesnt.

Answer
Dear Alexandra,
Go on to the website for your mobile phone and BLOCK him from sending you any text messages or calling you.  IF and WHEN he really wants you back... which doesn't sound like it right now and probably never..... he will FIND YOU and do whatever it takes to get you back.  Any less than that... you can and deserve better... it's really that simple... Who cares if he doesn't want to be with you... YOUR FABULOUS!!! Someone will want to love you accordingly.... He doesn't deserve your time, love, or consideration..... Anything short of moving a mountain ~ he doesn't deserve you!!! Remember ~ we don't settle for anything less than the best!!