Expert: ***ERICA*** - 8/8/2009

Question
my girltriend cheated and dumped me she moved 100 miles away, what the problem is she calls people up and causes me personal problems, she also calls me rtandomly with a withheld number, why does this happen, is she trying to hurt me


Answer
Dear Nicholas,
Sorry it took me some time to get back to you ~ my computer was down....

I honestly don't know why she would call from a blocked number except for the fact that she doesn't want you to know that she is calling or where she is calling from.  I don't even know why she is calling.  However, if it hurts you to talk to her ~ be firm and tell her that you would rather her not call you anymore that you care about her, but your relationship is over and that you wish her well.  This will allow you to continue to try and rebuild your own life.  Then, ignore the drama that she is trying to cause for you ~ obviously she is going to great lengths to keep herself in your world to some degree, but not the degree that you need..... Be nice, be firm, and remember that the best revenge is SUCCESS!!! Good Luck