Expert: Julie - 8/12/2009

Question
i asked my girlfriend at first for just friendship, but she made made my fall in love with her and then i asked her for a relationship and she agreed. we have been into this relationship for just three months old and then she came to my house and asked for a break up. i cant let her go off my life. i try to do , but i cant. she is scared that i cant marry her, that's why she left me. how do i get her back to me? i really miss her sms and her calls and her sexy voice. please help me . what must i do to get her back to myself?

Answer
Well unfortunatly when someone decides to leave you, you can't do anything to get them to come back. However if you do try to get her back, you will just do the one thing that you don't want, which is push her away.  Its normal you miss her and want her back of course but she's the one who made the decision and its something you need to respect. People do get back together sometimes, but you need to give her space to miss you, think about the relationship and if she wants to come back or not. The choice is entirely up to her, and not much you do will sway her. Sorry if its not what you wanted to hear but its the truth.

Good luck

Julie