Expert: Julie - 9/24/2009

Question
Well over the past week or so I've have difficulties with guys.Nobody else can help me because they say I am to young and what not,and I understand it may not be love,but I believe with all my heart what I'm doing is right,well kind of.So I found a guy that I really liked,and things were going great,or so I thought...until I met another guy that swept me off my feet.We kissed and he told his friends he liked me but that eventually changed.The other guy asked me out and I wasn't sure what to do at the moment.Sooner or later,I chose the other guy after about a say or two,as I was still in love my ex.I thought I was falling for the guy I chose,but just recently I found out there was a bet that wasn't pleasant,and he denied it,but he later told me the truth and told me he really didn't like me all along...</3 My ex still wants to be with me,but I'm not sure if I should go back to him or not.What is the best way to handle this situation??

Answer
You have to go with your heart on this one. If its your ex you are still in love with then I'd say give him a chance. I wouldn't want anything to do with someone who had a bet going that you said didn't sound pleasant..

If however you have doubts about your ex, then maybe take some time at least a couple of weeks for yourself and not see any of them and see how you feel by then..taking some time for yourself does tend to clear up a lot of things.

Good luck

Julie