How to Breakup/Deal With Break Ups/break up alone

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Expert: ***ERICA*** - 9/17/2009


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so i am literally alone, like i do not have a single friend they all got jealous over the guy i was dating and it been two years since i had a friend and i just broke up with the guy because he was very much drifting from me and he would make plans with me then cancel day of because his friends wanted to hang out. i cant seem to not want him back even though i know its not a good relationship. it doesn't help that i have to see him twice a week in school.

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Dear Bree,

You have to recreate your own life and make your own life again ~ new friends, new things to do, etc.  Focus on this and that will take the focus off of him.  Then, once you are feeling great about yourself and have some good people in your life ~ you can look back and see if it really was a good relationship because someone who cancels plans with you when something better comes along isn't a good boyfriend...

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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO

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BBA Expert in the How to Attract that Man of Your Dreams Engaged numerous times ~ grew from a self destructive person to a healthy woman. Hope to have helped many people go through this extremely difficult time. Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple

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