Expert: Julie - 9/26/2009

Question
me and my girl have known each other since  1 1/2 year. we were hanging around for first 3 months after we met. And then she ditched me. Now she has come back to me.

we know very little about each other. she claims that she likes me very much and indirectly informs me that she loves me. But when i ask her whether she loves me, she never gives me a proper answer. I am getting fed up this girl who never answers my question properly. Day by Day i'm getting irritated by this girl.

So now, How do i Break with this girl without having to get hurt by her or vice verse

Answer
Just tell her simply that its not working for you. Theres really no way of breaking up with anyone without hurting them but at least this way its the nicest way to break up with her. Trust me, the irritation will only build and you'll end up breaking up with her in a not so nice way if you keep going like this. If she asks why you want to break up just either tell the truth or just simply say you don't think things are working out, and that you don't see you guys being compatible.

Julie