Expert: Julie - 9/9/2009

Question
i have had my girlfriend for around 3 months. but it was 2 weeks before summer holidays and after the summer i come back fromm my holiday to find she has moved on. we were perfect together. i had never felt better and she agrees that she felt the best she ever had just being together and wishes we could go back or says we should have waited. everything was fine. she said she just stopped missing me and doesn't want to force herself back into love because she feels it would be fake. i love her still very much and it has totally torn me to pieces. she wants to be friends but i want her back. i love her too much to let her go. is there anyway of getting back and an specific time i should try. i will never forgive myself if i lose her forever. she means the world to me and even her best friend said she loved me so much and fully trusted me. nothing went wrong it was just a lack of communication. is there anything i can do to try and get her back maybe make her feel special as a mate or something and then try to get back with her?

Answer
It might already be too late if she no longer has feelings and has moved on but the only chance you have would be to be her friend, maybe her feelings for you will come back during this time but don't put too much hope into it. Be positive around her and don't bring up the relationship or it'll put pressure on her. Of course its all up to her but thats really the best that you could do.