Expert: ***ERICA*** - 9/16/2009

Question
hi Erica i have been with this guy for 3 years and  he seemed so nice at first... i am 20 and hes 24  he has 3 kids with 2 different baby mothers both of them are bit*s.. any who... we were the perfect couple.. at first .. then everyone started hateing  us or at least that what it seemed like to me ... my brother stopped talking to me because of him.. a lot of girls started haten me because.. they liked him .. i'm guessing... ..well three years passed and .. im just not happy .. i get a feeling deep in my stomach telling me that hes a cheater but i could never prove it .. i see text msgz all the time from other people .. but he tells me those are just sluts that want to get with him...and on top of all that shit his baby's mother that has two of the kids for him is claiming that she is still with him and ...was with him for 6 years... he tells me something different.   i don't know who to believe cause  i really love this guy...  ... well i got pregnant for him and he was there for me for months and disappeared on me the last two months... ..now i have a beautiful son..  he showed up at the hospital...  but he hasn't seen my son since then... i know this guy is a ass hole but like i said i really love this guy........ so now i get a call... a random call from a correctional facility .... hes in JAIL ERICA... and he wants to get back on track with me and my son......i know this guy has to go ... thats why im on the Internet trying to find the perfect FUCK YOU LETTER .... ....to send to him.......well im very confused and need some words of wisdom...can you please help??

i know i deserve better!

Hannah

Answer
Dear Hannah,
You do deserve better and get off the internet trying to find the perfect letter...because the perfect thing to do is..... NOTHING.... DO NOT RESPOND.... He is NOT in love with you... he is a player... he needs to step up, be a man ~ take responsibility for his children and himself.  YOU have to be a great mother and live a FABULOUS life.... The best revenge is SUCCESS.... Don't even get involved in the drama.... let sleeping dogs lie..... DON'T RESPOND to him PERIOD.... Any response will just make him try harder and do you really want to be with a man who is everything you described above???? HELL NO!!!  GOOD LUCK