Expert: Julie - 1/14/2010

Question
"I have a friend that I really like. We have sex a lot, in fact there was a possibility that I was pregnant. He wouldn't make he and I official until yesterday, but he told me not to tell anyone that we were official. I told him that if he didn't want to make some sort of commitment with me that I was going to be done with him. He promised that he wasn't using me for sex. In order to assure myself that it were true, I cut off all the sex for a week. He seemed true, but today, after work, we ended up having sex again and when we were done he said, I think we should just be friends, end this before someone gets hurt. I said are you serious, he hug me and left. I want him back, I really like him, please help me. How do I make him want me back?"


Answer
I would ignore him now..people always want what they can't have so dont' give in to him anymore at all and live your life.
If he tries to get together again just tell him no, you want more than just what he's offering and if he can't give that to you then its time for you both to move on, and stand your ground. Trust me, if he really is interested in being with you, then he'd do something about it. But don't play games either, as that will only push him away, no trying to make him jealous or anything.

Good luck

Julie