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hey... my boyfriend and i broke up after 10 months of date for 3 weeks now and i miss him soooo much...
we broke up for stupid reasons like: for the last 3 months of or relationship he became so lazy and hes always depressed so we ended up not seeing each other for weeks and from 3-4 phone calls a day to 1 call every 2 days.... i asked him several times if he want a break up and he told me to be more patient and give him some time but i couldnt take it anymore so i asked him for the last time and he told me that its up to me so we broke up...
since the break up we didnt talk except twice online...
i miss him soooooo much and i want him back pleasssse help me

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This happens all too often. Alot of couples start off really hot and heavy and then as some time passes and the so-called heat goes away. But this is completely natural. No relationship can sustain the 3-4 calls every day. As you can now see, you made a mistake and shouldnt have broken up. Just call him and be honest. Tell him that you made a mistake and you miss him. I dont recommend telling him that you broke up because he was depressed etc. Also stop asking him if he wants to breakup. That will always lead to a breakup.


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