Expert: Harry Ax - 1/20/2012

Question
Well me and my ex relationship is very complicated..we were together since we were 17 he went to jail in 2007 for 2 1/2 yrs...when he came home he found out i slept with two other men ever since then its been hell he cheated on me once that i know of...we moved in together but he was always moody...i moved out because he would talk to other females in front of me on the phone..all we did was argue.. We still spent everyday together he said we can work on the relationshi that was all of last year the in december he said we are never going to be together..i still hung out everyday and were intimate because he still treated me like his girl...i guess today he had enough of me because i was nagging about him going to ny to meet another girl he said we cant talk anymore and that i shouldnt worry about who he talks to...he thinks i talk to another guy and i dont he thinks im the worst person ill admit i do say make comments on him being with other females so its kinda my fault i miss him i dnt know what to do...having a hard time accepting that he no longer wants to be with me because he cant get over what i did when he was in jail i just feel like im losing my mind...i also keep thinking of him being happy with someone else i need help asap i dont hav ontrol of my life right now im extremly sad

Answer
When you need a man to make yourself feel good and validated as a women then all it shows is that you are very insecure and this is never a good way to be in a relationship. I suggest you focus on yourself by improving your education, or hobbies and immersing yourself with friends. Once you build more self esteem you will be in a better position to decide which men to keep in your lives as these will be the guys that enhance you and make you feel good.