Expert: Julie - 7/20/2006

Question
i was going out with this guy we lasted a year and 9 months. we were always there for each other always very close i really love him and he loved me but all of a sudden he move and he starting changing in the way that he wouldn't call me and see me etc.. so ones i actually call him because i was getting worry and all he said was i dont love you is all over and i am in love with some other else. it is so hard i dont know what to do i can take him out of my mine.

Answer
Sorry to hear this has happened to you...unfortunatly people do move on, even if we still love them or care about them..
Unfortunatly, theres nothing you can do, it sounds like his mind is made up and he's already moved on.

The only choice you have in this situation is to move on. I know it sucks, its hard! Especially when you can't stop thinking about him. But alls you can do now is just focus on your own recovery. Do things that make you happy. I know its gonna be hard right now, but once you start doing things for yourself, then you will start feeling better.

Take it day by day...don't look to the future right now, because right now to you, things might seem bleak. The best is to take things day by day, and do something positive for yourself each and every day.

Good luck....