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my Girlfriend broke up with me at a football game yesterday and said that we can still be friends but i know that never works out. i talked to her on MSN messenger that night and asked her why she broke up with me and she said that i follow her around to much at school which i don't her friends tell her that i do and that i ask really personal wuestions and i do just b/c i think it would help our relationship. i recently sent her an email telling her that i am still in love with her and that all the reasons that you broke up with me for ill stop doing those things. she still hasn't reaplied to it. i am still madly in love with her and she used to be in love with me and i really want her back. what should i do to get her back?

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Unfortunatly theres nothing you can do to get her back. If you have any chance of getting her back though, don't text her, message her unless you are going to talk about other things other than the relationship or getting her back.

Trust me, if you keep trying to get her back, you will push her away guaranteed...
I'd just leave it for now, and if you see her online or at school, just act cool, and say hi if you want..but thats it, keep it at a friendly level. She might see you have changed and come back. But if her minds made up, theres really nothing you can do to get her back, sorry.


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