| Subject | Date Asked |
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| 5 months break off | 11/16/2009 |
Q: im 20 years old girl i recently had a break off with a guy 5 months ago after a 6 months relation. ...
A: This guy sounds very shallow. I would ignore him, just because HE doesn't find you attractive to ...
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| What Should I Do !? | 11/10/2009 |
Q: Well i have been with this boy for about 6 years. In the beginning of the relationship i had a best ...
A: Yes, this situation is unhealthy..you need to leave and give him time to himself and either he ...
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| Any chance with her? | 11/7/2009 |
Q: Ok, so I was seeing this girl who I really like. It was like love at first site for me. We went on ...
A: Well to be honest with you I totally agree with your psychologist. I would let her know how you feel ...
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| is my ex string me along? | 11/7/2009 |
Q: How are you? Hope you enjoy your holiday. I'm the one who ask you questions about "join ex facebook" ...
A: If I were you I wouldn't question him. The bottom line is, if he really had intentions of working ...
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| can we find the love that he says is gone? | 11/7/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend says he doesn't love me anymore and has felt like that for about 6 weeks. He just feels ...
A: Your welcome. You are doing the right thing. Another thing I want to point out is don't ask him at ...
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| can we find the love that he says is gone? | 11/7/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend says he doesn't love me anymore and has felt like that for about 6 weeks. He just feels ...
A: Well there could be a number of reasons why he doesn't feel like he loves you anymore, he could be ...
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| is my ex string me along? | 11/6/2009 |
Q: How are you? Hope you enjoy your holiday. I'm the one who ask you questions about "join ex facebook" ...
A: sorry to hear nothings changed. I think that he got what he wanted from you, got the reassurance you ...
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| what should i do? | 10/2/2009 |
Q: im 18 years old, and i was dating this guy, we met when i was 16 and he was 19 i was his first ...
A: This is a hard situation to be in..theres not much you can do except focus on yourself and really ...
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| Breakup after 29yrs | 9/29/2009 |
Q: How does one even start to move on. Its like a death that you go through. After the big fight he ...
A: Well what your going through certainly is tough. Thing is, and I hate to say it..but you won't even ...
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| Break up | 9/28/2009 |
Q: "I am 26 years old and am writing you today because last month my year-long relationship with my ...
A: I am proud of you for standing your ground and not running back to her. She most likely would've ...
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| How to break up with a girl on good terms | 9/26/2009 |
Q: me and my girl have known each other since 1 1/2 year. we were hanging around for first 3 months ...
A: Just tell her simply that its not working for you. Theres really no way of breaking up with anyone ...
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| Complicated | 9/24/2009 |
Q: Well over the past week or so I've have difficulties with guys.Nobody else can help me because they ...
A: You have to go with your heart on this one. If its your ex you are still in love with then I'd say ...
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| question | 9/22/2009 |
Q: I really want to break up with my girlfriend. The problem is I don't want to hurt her. I know there ...
A: You are right, theres no way you won't hurt her by breaking up with her. The best time to do this is ...
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| Cant get over my ex | 9/22/2009 |
Q: i dated my ex for about one and a half years and we were really tight together. she broke up with me ...
A: Well unfortunatly thats the thing, by getting together with her and keeping in touch it will take a ...
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| Long Distance | 9/21/2009 |
Q: Hey, Im 17 (young i know ) and my ex boyfreind moved to Oz about 3 months ago we have been going ...
A: I can tell you right now that it would be a huge mistake to put your life on hold for him to be with ...
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| crying and pressure | 9/18/2009 |
Q: ..my girlfriend broke up with me at the beginning of the year so its beena while but i just cant let ...
A: Well you are right about one thing, never show weakness to someone, it will just push them away. I ...
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| Broken up and want another chance | 9/17/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend just brok up with me on August8th 09. We had been together for 2 1/2 yrs. The last ...
A: I do think theres still a chance..but only as long as you totally leave her alone as she asked. Its ...
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| how to forget about him | 9/15/2009 |
Q: i just brooked up with my boo i been going out with him for 1 year i really love him but i need to ...
A: It is very hard when you break up to forget about someone and not be jealous..trust me, everyone ...
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| Broken up and want another chance | 9/15/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend just brok up with me on August8th 09. We had been together for 2 1/2 yrs. The last ...
A: I think right now things are still too fresh in her mind and she still has a lot of resentment and ...
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| Recent breakup confusion | 9/14/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend recently(few days ago) broke up with me with the reasoning that 'he did not love me ...
A: It just sounds like he's got some commitment issues. I had a boyfriend like that. He freaked when I ...
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| She loves me but just doen't know if i'm the one | 9/14/2009 |
Q: ! Hope you can help!!! Ok here we go!! Me and my ex had been dating for just over a year, the ...
A: I think you did great in handling things with her. You didn't pressure her, and you gave her the ...
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| Beautiful Disaster | 9/11/2009 |
Q: Hey Julie, My name is Kelly. I just got out of a relationship about 4 months ago. When I met ...
A: Unfortunatly, it seems when someone does the breaking up we never really get closure or all the ...
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| now what? | 9/9/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend and i broke up over my insecurites, that i have no clue where i got these from, i have ...
A: I know this scenario all too well.. the problem is, as long as he can have you during this break up ...
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| girlfriend. getting back? | 9/9/2009 |
Q: i have had my girlfriend for around 3 months. but it was 2 weeks before summer holidays and after ...
A: It might already be too late if she no longer has feelings and has moved on but the only chance you ...
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| why | 9/8/2009 |
Q: i had a baby a year ago today, and her father left me b4 she ws born....should i let him comeback? ...
A: That right there I wouldnt take him back. He left his daughter and you, for another woman to use ...
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| why | 9/7/2009 |
Q: i had a baby a year ago today, and her father left me b4 she ws born....should i let him comeback?
A: Well i would find out why he left in the first place, if thats the way he is then I wouldn't put it ...
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| Kevin's "Hardest breakup I have had to deal with" | 9/7/2009 |
Q: I read a message from someone called Kevin who wrote to Erica with the above mentioned subject. His ...
A: I hope Kevin is okay as well. We all have dark thoughts when going through pain, I know that I have ...
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| How Can He Do This? | 9/4/2009 |
Q: The guy and I that have been dating for the last 2yrs recently broke up. The ultimate reason for the ...
A: Oh trust me, this break up is for the best. The guy is VERY manipulative. He was cheating on you ...
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| 4 years then he just goes missing?? | 9/4/2009 |
Q: Now in that time when there has been an issue come up once in awhile mostly when hes been out ...
A: Whatever you do, do not contact him. Don't tell him you are going out of town. Don't say anything. ...
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| My boyfriend broke up with me | 9/3/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I just recently broke up, only three days ago. I've been absolutely miserable and ...
A: When your boyfriend said that I think he meant he cares about you but doesn't have those strong ...
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| how can I deal? | 8/27/2009 |
Q: me & my boyfriend of 3 yrs recently broke up about 3 weeks. he broke up with me because he said he's ...
A: Well it does sound like you guys need a break if things are stressful right now. But you shouldn't ...
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| Ready to move on... | 8/27/2009 |
Q: My first boyfriend (Adam – 20, me -19) broke up with me nearly three months ago (we dated for six ...
A: I think it will be hard when you do see him especially since you still miss him. For example, my ex ...
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| A Very Odd Parting | 8/22/2009 |
Q: We enjoyed a very intense, satisfying, and most of all loving relationship, secure in our mutual ...
A: Well unfortunatly the best way to get over this is no contact if you want it to be faster than if ...
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| how to get a good guy back | 8/21/2009 |
Q: I had a very kind and caring boyfriend who called everynight and was very attentive to everything I ...
A: I'm proud of you for maintaining no contact. This ensures you gave him time to think about the ...
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| If I made the right decision... | 8/20/2009 |
Q: my name is Kathleen and I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years. I'm 26 years old. We ...
A: I dont even have to think about this one to know you made the 100% right decision. This was a VERY ...
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| breaking up | 8/19/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend of 9 months has decided he doesn't want to be with me any more hes done this a few ...
A: I really don't think he should be contacting you like that. Its hard to say why he's doing it ...
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| breaking up | 8/17/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend of 9 months has decided he doesn't want to be with me any more hes done this a few ...
A: I understand your attachment to the daughter but I think its best to give some space between youa ...
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| My Complicated relationship | 8/16/2009 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend have been together for a long while and we both admit we really love each ...
A: Don't bring it up at all. Just bite your tongue and act like everythings fine. You never know, maybe ...
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| breaking up | 8/15/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend of 9 months has decided he doesn't want to be with me any more hes done this a few ...
A: It doesn't sound like it was a healthy relationship. I know its hard to be withouth him, no matter ...
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| Breakup | 8/14/2009 |
Q: i'v bin datin my bf 4 2yrs nw bt we seem 2 hv a problem.he hits me alot like more dan 4times n uses ...
A: Well you don't need to go into details. What you have told me, was enough. LEAVE HIM! He is ...
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| My Complicated relationship | 8/14/2009 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend have been together for a long while and we both admit we really love each ...
A: Have a talk with her and ask her how she really feels, if she feels you have made changes in that ...
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| i want my gf back. | 8/12/2009 |
Q: i asked my girlfriend at first for just friendship, but she made made my fall in love with her and ...
A: Well unfortunatly when someone decides to leave you, you can't do anything to get them to come back. ...
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| Moving Out and Moving On | 8/7/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years (I'm 28, he's 26)and we have lived together for a ...
A: You are doing the absolute right thing by leaving him. Don't feel guilty, you shouldn't feel guilty. ...
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| Any thoughts? | 8/6/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I broke up in the beginning of January, you can only imagine how amazing my New ...
A: I think he's confused and I think he still just turns to you as a friend. If he really wanted a ...
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| follow up question of join ex face book | 8/6/2009 |
Q: my ex now is starting to mesg me everyday or every second day letting me know about his work, he ...
A: Well I never encourage someone to sleep with their ex because it just makes them feel worse ...
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| Relationship Problems - Breakups and new 1s | 8/6/2009 |
Q: OK, I'm 25 and ended a relationship about 5 months ago while i was in my final year of Uni. That ...
A: You need to continue giving her space. If you pressure her, you risk pushing her away and losing her ...
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| I want OVER!! | 7/24/2009 |
Q: Hey Julie, I have a problem...i'm in a long distance relationship with this guy named Alex were both ...
A: Just tell him that the long distance isn't working for you and you want to concentrate on school and ...
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| 5 year relationship down the drain! | 7/22/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend went to school together and have known each other on and off since elementary ...
A: Wow not very mature of him to take off like that after one fight. And to leave for New york just ...
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| should i move on | 7/22/2009 |
Q: me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and its been great we have learned about eachother ...
A: I would not wait. Trust me on this. I made that mistake once. My ex told me maybe in six months, or ...
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| Obsession or love. | 7/21/2009 |
Q: I have a friend (male) who's totally taken by his ex. When he asks me for advice about his ex, he ...
A: Well it does sound like a bad situation. Unfortunatly the only thing you can do is be there for him. ...
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| follow up question of join ex face book | 7/21/2009 |
Q: my ex now is starting to mesg me everyday or every second day letting me know about his work, he ...
A: Well the thing is by continuing to talk to him or allow him to contact you, you kept reading too ...
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| My depressed girlfriend, what to do | 7/21/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend makes me unhappy. I love her, but she's always so down, I can hardly get through some ...
A: Have you talked to her family about this? If they know about this, then its their responsibility to ...
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| follow up question of "join ex face book"? | 7/19/2009 |
Q: my ex now is starting to mesg me everyday or every second day letting me know about his work, he ...
A: The reason he's keeping in touch with you is probably just simply because he wants to remain friends ...
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| How to get my love back? | 7/18/2009 |
Q: I am a 23 old guy. I was into a relationship for 5 months with my best friend. Now a couple of ...
A: I am sorry but it sounds like she is going to stick to this. And theres really nothing you can do ...
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| Break Up | 7/17/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I of almost a year and a half have just broken up. We had minor set backs in our ...
A: It sounds like he's confused and to be honest, doesn't sound like he's been very honest with you ...
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| bread up with baby's dad | 7/14/2009 |
Q: hey, my boyfriend and i have been dating for just over a year now. we have a 2 1/2 month old baby ...
A: the only thing you can do is to be honest with him. Tell him that you no longer want to be in a ...
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| How to deal with giving my ex sometime | 7/14/2009 |
Q: I was wondering what advise you would have for me on my situation. I want to get back with my ex ...
A: I am impressed! your doing all the right things. And your right, don't give her any comfort that you ...
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| druggie partner | 7/12/2009 |
Q: I have almost the same problem as the man who asked you a question before about the girl who is a ...
A: This is a very unhealthy situation and I think its best you leave him. Don't ever stay with anyone ...
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| Break up | 6/24/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 13 years. I have been trying to break up with him for about 3 ...
A: You just need to do it. i was in a similar situation as well, I just changed the locks and had to ...
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| Break Up | 6/23/2009 |
Q: My first boyfriend and I broke up two weeks ago. We dated for six months, and he broke up with me. ...
A: Everything your going through is totally normal in a break up.. The only way to get over this ...
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| break-up | 6/23/2009 |
Q: I have been dating a girl for about a month, and things were going very well. She told me she loved ...
A: Well whatever is troubling her was enough for her to push you away, even if you don't think it was ...
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| He doesn't want to get back together | 6/23/2009 |
Q: I am 20 years old and I have had only one boyfriend to date. We started dating at the end of high ...
A: Well it sounds like your ex has his mind made up, maybe time helped him realize you both weren't ...
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| its been a while | 6/22/2009 |
Q: I am 18 years old now with a great boyfriend of 4 months.. but No matter what I do I always get ...
A: It does sound like you were in love with him, and sometimes it is hard to forget a first love, and ...
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| How to get over my child's father? | 6/22/2009 |
Q: My ex and I were together for about 8 years, four strong years and 4 off and on. We then had a child ...
A: That is a difficult situation of course. And very painful since you still have to see him for the ...
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| does he really love me | 6/18/2009 |
Q: My bf of almost 10 yrs has me so fed up & confused. He recently told me that I was not marriage ...
A: It does sound like he has a lot of resentment built up towards you. Not saying he doesn't love you, ...
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| i want my ex back...but she has a new guy... | 6/16/2009 |
Q: my ex girlfriend and I broke up 2 weeks or so ago and it has been tough for me. we ended on "good ...
A: Your probably going through a mixture of feelings. People want what they can't have so now that she ...
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| WANT BY GIRL BACK IN MY LIFE | 6/16/2009 |
Q: i was in a releationship for about 2.5yrs we were very happy and had lot of plans for our future but ...
A: Well the only thing you can do is tell her you love her and are willing to try again and make her ...
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| Typical ex-boyfriend problems | 6/15/2009 |
Q: So I'm in my first year of high school, and I went out with this guy for a few months. He broke up ...
A: Well trying to talk to him and convince him won't help, people like to see the change for ...
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| WANT BY GIRL BACK IN MY LIFE | 6/15/2009 |
Q: i was in a releationship for about 2.5yrs we were very happy and had lot of plans for our future but ...
A: I am sure she cares about you, its hard to tell what her intentions are though. Maybe you just ...
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| i want my family | 6/14/2009 |
Q: hey julie, okay here it goes im a single 25yr old mom of one. I live wit just me & my son me & his ...
A: YES love is blind sometimes, sometimes even in the worst of situations when we love someone, it ...
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| regain my self esteem and dignity | 6/14/2009 |
Q: My ex is totally ignore me today, i didn't reach out to him either, but i feel so hurt, ashamed and ...
A: Well thats the thing, he keeps giving you false hope. He obviously does not have any intentions of ...
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| will he come back to me | 6/12/2009 |
Q: i have just come out of a 2 yr relationship with this guy i am really struggling to cope it all ...
A: Well it doesn't sound like he was very committed to this relationship at all. I understand how much ...
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| regain my self esteem and dignity | 6/12/2009 |
Q: My ex is totally ignore me today, i didn't reach out to him either, but i feel so hurt, ashamed and ...
A: Your welcome, I am glad to help. It does sound like he has some feelings for you but it doesn't ...
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| Confused about what to do! | 6/12/2009 |
Q: I been dating this guy for just over 3yrs we was best mates before... he was attracted to me I ...
A: This doesn't sound like the healthiest relationship..and its clear that right now he doesn't want a ...
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| First Breakup | 6/12/2009 |
Q: My first boyfriend just broke up with me (I’m 19). It was a six month long relationship. He broke up ...
A: First break ups along with any break up is very hard. Its normal to be missing him and really sad ...
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| How am I supposed to react..... | 6/11/2009 |
Q: Good Morning Julie, Hope your doing well..... I have a 2 queries, Hope you would reply back ...
A: Wow sounds like you had it rough.. The thing is you probably won't be able to overcome all this on ...
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| boyfriend's using all excuses to get rid of me | 6/10/2009 |
Q: So this started a little later after my boyfriend had a fight with his parents over me. I don't ...
A: If he's asking for forgiveness and he really wants to put in the effort to work things out then its ...
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| this guy. | 6/10/2009 |
Q: Okay well there's this guy that wanted to get to know me and I said okay , I never thought I would ...
A: In some cases yes..if he likes you at all. If he doesn't then he won't try at all. I understand its ...
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| Sounds normal, but not for me.... | 6/10/2009 |
Q: i guess you have heard this before.. i was interested in this girl for a year, i had known her ...
A: Well if she was truly interested in you she would've chosen to be with you. Unfortunatly she didn't. ...
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| ex gf of 5 days just got a new bf... | 6/9/2009 |
Q: my gf and i broke up last week and now i found out yesterday that she has a new bf. is this ...
A: Well everyone does this for different reasons but either she knew this guy all along (not saying she ...
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| this guy. | 6/8/2009 |
Q: Okay well there's this guy that wanted to get to know me and I said okay , I never thought I would ...
A: In this case just act nonchalant and very uninterested..if he's smart enough he will catch on. No ...
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| boyfriend's using all excuses to get rid of me | 6/8/2009 |
Q: So this started a little later after my boyfriend had a fight with his parents over me. I don't ...
A: Well the thing is you are just prolonging the misery and its only gonna get worse. He is trying to ...
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| In need of advice... | 6/8/2009 |
Q: I just need some type of advised on how to cope and react with this situation in my life. I have ...
A: Well lets just say I am in somewhat of a similar situation as you, ex has issues he needs to work on ...
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| this guy. | 6/6/2009 |
Q: Okay well there's this guy that wanted to get to know me and I said okay , I never thought I would ...
A: The only way to get over this guy is to completely stop talking to him and answering his texts and ...
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| break in a relationship | 6/5/2009 |
Q: last month my girlfriend and i broke up. it was fairly mutual and civil as we decided we were ...
A: Usually taking a break from a relationship can be a good thing. It makes you take a step back and ...
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| My boyfriend might leave me..and I don't know how to handle it | 6/4/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are both 21 yrs old and have been together for 2 years. We are in somewhat of a ...
A: Personally I wouldn't call him. It IS hard, when my ex broke up with me I went thru everything you ...
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| My boyfriend might leave me..and I don't know how to handle it | 6/4/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are both 21 yrs old and have been together for 2 years. We are in somewhat of a ...
A: I know that feeling. You are just acting out of fear, and its hard when you are scared of losing ...
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| what to do... | 6/2/2009 |
Q: Okay so here goes... February of 2006 I start dating what I can now call my highschool ...
A: Well this sounds like a very dysfunctional relationship.. Honestly I think the break up is for the ...
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| break up? | 6/2/2009 |
Q: Julie, Well my girlfriend..ex I guess you'd say now..were together around 2 months. We hit it off ...
A: Well she does sound like she overreacted, and took it the wrong way. You were rightfully concerned ...
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| break up... | 6/1/2009 |
Q: This is a follow up question to the '2.5 year relationship gone bad' I hope you'll know which one ...
A: The BEST way to get someone back is to move on..I know it sounds crazy, but nothing makes an ex ...
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| break up... | 6/1/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I recently (yesterday) split up after about 2.5 years together. There was a ...
A: Well from her perspective sounds like she still cares about you, but doesn't want to be with you ...
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| My girlfriend broke up with me | 6/1/2009 |
Q: I´m 26 years old and I´m from venezuela. My girlfriend vanessa is 21 years old and we have been ...
A: Thats a tough one because you broke trust..it might be innocent but to her it might not be. You need ...
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| I don`t know what to do!! | 5/31/2009 |
Q: My name is Kayla and I need help in dealing with a relationship. I am 19 and the man I love is 26, ...
A: Oh yes I know this situation all too well, I've been in a relationship much like yours, he wasn't ...
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| Putting theory into practice..but it still hurts. | 5/30/2009 |
Q: . I have emailed you before about a guy I am trying to get over. If you might recall, I called him ...
A: You totally did the right thing. I know its driving you crazy but its better than telling him your ...
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| not sure how to deal/confused | 5/30/2009 |
Q: well my story is too long but would try to cut it short as possible...i cant understand exactly wat ...
A: Its plain and simple, she isnt ready for a boyfriend from the sounds of it. Sounds to me like she ...
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| regain my self esteem and dignity | 5/30/2009 |
Q: My ex is totally ignore me today, i didn't reach out to him either, but i feel so hurt, ashamed and ...
A: The only thing you can do now is just completely ignore him. Now he knows how you feel and you don't ...
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| follow up question of join ex face book? | 5/29/2009 |
Q: My ex just send me another measg which told me that he just bought the new phone which will help him ...
A: Well he got close to you and then he pulled away probably because he got scared and didn't know what ...
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| Why do i still like him | 5/28/2009 |
Q: Why am I still jealous of a guy who cheated on me, used me, abused me, neglected me, ignored me, and ...
A: Well this is a bad situation. I was in that situation. My ex was everything your ex was as well..and ...
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| Is it really over? | 5/28/2009 |
Q: Hey, im 19 and so is my ex. My girlfriend of four months and i broke up 3 weeks ago. Now i know it's ...
A: well I can tell you that unfortunatly during a breakup you did everything wrong. You did everything ...
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| How to tell my ex that I want him back | 5/28/2009 |
Q: I broke up with my ex. Its been two months now and I have had lots of time to think. I now want him ...
A: You did exactly the right thing!! but you are right, its time to move on because you can't sit ...
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| How to tell my ex that I want him back | 5/27/2009 |
Q: I broke up with my ex. Its been two months now and I have had lots of time to think. I now want him ...
A: I would just call him up and ask if he's interested in going for coffee or something, or just ask ...
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| please.don't judge me | 5/26/2009 |
Q: I need a friend and support at the moment. My live in bf over a year break up. We had good and bad ...
A: Of course I won't judge you! From the sounds of it you are doing what you can to start your life ...
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| follow up question of join ex face book? | 5/23/2009 |
Q: My ex just send me another measg which told me that he just bought the new phone which will help him ...
A: He's sending mixed messages probably because he really does care and miss you but isn't really ready ...
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| Can I move on? | 5/21/2009 |
Q: I've been with this guy for 4 years. For the past 4 years, we've had our ups and downs like most ...
A: I think bottom line is that he's not as in love with you as you are with him, otherwise he would not ...
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| When he says he needs time | 5/21/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I started dating right after his wife left him. We have been dating for eight ...
A: Not too sure if he's trying to break up with you or not but he'd probably have told you and then not ...
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| closure | 5/21/2009 |
Q: .. This guy.. whom I will call "G," is a guy I was seeing on and off. He was someone I really liked ...
A: Your welcome. And yes it will just take time unfortunatly. It will happen faster if you don't talk ...
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| closure | 5/21/2009 |
Q: .. This guy.. whom I will call "G," is a guy I was seeing on and off. He was someone I really liked ...
A: You are having a hard time getting over him...and your right, when we are trying to get over someone ...
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| breakup | 5/20/2009 |
Q: hey , i broke up with my EX since 2 month and he claimed that i kept on hurting him because ...
A: Well its up to you, but personally I wouldn't, I wouldn't be bothered to give him the time of day ...
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| follow up question of "join ex face book"? | 5/20/2009 |
Q: My ex just send me another measg which told me that he just bought the new phone which will help him ...
A: I think he's just being friendly but if you really want to know the best thing to do is just out ...
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| Stuck in a Rut | 5/19/2009 |
Q: Recently. my boyfriend and i of a year and a half broke up. It happened after a fight we had where ...
A: Yes that is a very hard situation. And very frustrating. If he really believes it is better to be ...
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| is it over? | 5/19/2009 |
Q: I have been dating a girl for 9 months. Our time together was great and we got along so good ...
A: Well unfortunatly theres not much you can do. She sounds genuinely confused and doesn't know what ...
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| Join ex face book? | 5/19/2009 |
Q: My ex broke up with me 4 and 1/2 month ago and we have no contact for about 3 and 1/2 month up to ...
A: From the sounds of it, it sounds like he's just being kind to you..but doesn't sound like he wants ...
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| to clear humiliated feeling | 5/18/2009 |
Q: I made contact with a college friend 3 months ago. He lives in a different city and travels alot for ...
A: Well when it comes to matters of the heart we all make those mistakes. I know I have many times and ...
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| Followup to Continued from Why did this Happen | 5/18/2009 |
Q: Ok, just one more question regarding this whole issue. After I wrote the last question, I did get ...
A: I would go to the sentencing and speak your mind. Although it may be hard to see him and say what ...
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| Confusing break up | 5/18/2009 |
Q: I met this girl (she is 19, I am 27) about 2 months ago and we hit it off right off the bat. I find ...
A: Well you may never get the answer out of her. She probably decided for whatever reason that she just ...
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| getting over a breakup | 5/17/2009 |
Q: Whatever you can tell me to heal up from a man I truly fell in love with who was two-timing me..... ...
A: Well sounds like you are doing all the right things in getting over your ex. And its great you know ...
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| break up do i move on? | 5/17/2009 |
Q: i have really been taking so much strain getting over my ex and we only dated for around four ...
A: Well two weeks isn't long enough to recover..I myself was in a four month relationship and it took ...
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| i need help with my relationship | 5/17/2009 |
Q: ok, I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy that I've been with for a year and two months ...
A: Long distance relationships are really hard and when he doesn't act consistently then its hard not ...
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| trying again | 5/16/2009 |
Q: ok so i have posted on here before. last night i tried breaking up again. it didn't go so well. (i ...
A: I can tell you right now that the reason she does this is because she sees she gets results.. its ...
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| The Everything Is Fine Blues | 5/14/2009 |
Q: I am in a relationship that has lasted well over a year. I am twenty-two and she is twenty. We love ...
A: Well heres the thing, you aren't happy now, and it doesn't sound like she is either. Sounds like you ...
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| Continued from Why did this happen? 3/26/09 | 5/14/2009 |
Q: This is an add on to "Why did this happen" from 3/26/09, which I asked you, Julie. After this ...
A: Well first off, I am not surprised he didn't change. Guys like him don't change..I'm sure its ...
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| I got broken up with | 5/13/2009 |
Q: Well I dated my ex for 2 years, I'm 19 and she's 20. We had a great relationship, we had a lot of ...
A: Well she obviously still loves you and maybe she has some hope of working things out. begging ...
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| I got broken up with | 5/12/2009 |
Q: Well I dated my ex for 2 years, I'm 19 and she's 20. We had a great relationship, we had a lot of ...
A: I can honestly tell you that if you keep fighting you will lose her. Its just going to push her ...
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| Join ex face book? | 5/11/2009 |
Q: My ex broke up with me 4 and 1/2 month ago and we have no contact for about 3 and 1/2 month up to ...
A: Well the question is, do you think he wants to rekindle the love?? If I were you, to be sure, I ...
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| Oh, the pain!! | 5/11/2009 |
Q: Well I recently just got out of my first relationship, unfortunately the break up did not go very ...
A: Personally, I would not be friends with that girl. I think what she's doing is very inconsiderate. ...
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| Mixed signals from my common law husband | 5/11/2009 |
Q: we have been together for 5 and a half years. We just had a baby girl 2 months ago I'm not going ...
A: He really doesn't know how to communicate does he? The thing is what he's doing is slightly abusive, ...
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| Should I contact him? | 5/11/2009 |
Q: .Thank-you in advance for your time in answering my question. My question is if I should contact my ...
A: If I were you I'd go after what you really want because with this much breaking up and getting back ...
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| Millitary Relationship | 5/9/2009 |
Q: I'm a 19 year old sailor who was recently dumped my by 17 year old girlfriend of a year and a half ...
A: Sorry you are going through all this. The thing is long distance relationships are really really ...
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| Join ex face book? | 5/8/2009 |
Q: My ex broke up with me 4 and 1/2 month ago and we have no contact for about 3 and 1/2 month up to ...
A: If this breakup is still painful I would avoid joining his facebook. What if you see pictures of him ...
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| My first love | 5/6/2009 |
Q: I don't know weither or not I should try to get him back. I am young I'm of the age of fourteen, but ...
A: No problem at all!! First off..when you found out he was with this other girl, he did it to get you ...
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| Contact With Ex-Boyfriend | 5/6/2009 |
Q: My ex-boyfriend and I were together for 1 1/2 years, we were living together for a little over a ...
A: I wouldn't contact him to ask him or give a deadline because he knows exactly where you stand with ...
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| Waiting in vain | 5/3/2009 |
Q: I have a boyfriend for 2 years. After 1 year of relationship with him, i found out that he have ...
A: I would honestly give up on him. If he really wanted to be with you he'd do whatever he can to be ...
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| How to get over it QUICKLY | 5/3/2009 |
Q: I was with my now ex-boyfriend for 7 months. We didn't have the smoothest relationship. In the ...
A: Well its only been a day or two since you broke up and its hard to move on that fast unfortunatly. ...
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| frustrated | 5/2/2009 |
Q: i am 18 years old, i asked a question about a week ago, i dont know if you rember me or not. Anyway ...
A: Thats the problem with being friends with someone you still have feelings for but who isn't ready to ...
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| I need help | 5/2/2009 |
Q: my name is Gina. I know this guy for about 4 years. We started dating the year after we meet, I was ...
A: Yes what he's doing is very wrong, for one, he's using you and for two, he's cheating on these other ...
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| How to cope | 4/30/2009 |
Q: I met this guy through one of my friends and the guy was her cousin. We fell for each other ...
A: Well you did what you did because he had hurt you. You stood up for yourself and you should never ...
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| Contact With Ex-Boyfriend | 4/29/2009 |
Q: My ex-boyfriend and I were together for 1 1/2 years, we were living together for a little over a ...
A: The girl in the park could've been anyone..I have guy friends I hang out with also. It does sound ...
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| Mixed Signals | 4/29/2009 |
Q: I dont understand the mixed signals I am getting from a girl that broke up with me. 3 months after ...
A: That does sound like she's giving you mixed signals. IT sounds like she still has strong feelings ...
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| What does he mean? | 4/28/2009 |
Q: I have been dating this guy for close to three weeks - so not too long - and it seemed to be going ...
A: I would talk to him and ask if theres anything different he would like you to do that would make him ...
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| Past Bad Relationship | 4/28/2009 |
Q: I've never had a serious relationship but I did have a brief lets say horrible relationship with a ...
A: Don't feel bad for what you went through. I have people look at me and question why I stayed with a ...
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| sad break up | 4/27/2009 |
Q: i am 18 years old. I have been dating a girl for about five months now, well it just ended this ...
A: You can try to be her friend and see how she takes that..with the bbq you are planning on having and ...
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| relationship break up | 4/26/2009 |
Q: I am disraught. I have been living with my girlfriend fornearly 2 years and we have broken up. I was ...
A: Sorry to hear all that you are going through..I know how devastating it is to lose someone, and ...
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| break-up or not? | 4/25/2009 |
Q: im 17 nearly 18 me and my boyfriend have been together for about nine/ten months. i really love and ...
A: I would leave him. If he's possessive and abusive its not going to just end now, even if things have ...
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| Past Bad Relationship | 4/24/2009 |
Q: I've never had a serious relationship but I did have a brief lets say horrible relationship with a ...
A: The reason you feel like this is because it was a horrible experience and one you haven't really let ...
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| I want my best friend back | 4/23/2009 |
Q: I had a friend no best friend.Then d relation changed 2 love.But at d end of our skul days she felt ...
A: Have you spoken to her and told her how you feel? Let her know that alls you want is her friendship ...
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| To try and understand the break up | 4/22/2009 |
Q: I dated this guy for a year. He admitted he had watched me, not stalkerish but noticed for 8 months ...
A: I think you need to continue doing what your doing, don't talk to him, don't text him and just try ...
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| Dating a new girl | 4/20/2009 |
Q: I am a member of A.A. and was attracted to a woman for some time I saw in meetings. Let me say that ...
A: Hard to say why she pulled away, there could be various reasons, I don't really think it would be ...
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| will he come back | 4/19/2009 |
Q: Hi my name is Kiera me and my ex-boyfriend were together for six months we broke up because of a ...
A: Thats a hard question to answer. Only he knows the answer to that one. If you don't want to push ...
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| Letting Go. | 4/18/2009 |
Q: I am only young so sometimes I feel so stupid asking about cirtain things when it comes to ...
A: I 've had a guy break up with me before for those very same issues. Heres what I learned, if ...
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| heartbroken over a much needed breakup | 4/16/2009 |
Q: ..I have been dating my ex boyfriend for almost 3 years and we have a 4 month old daughter ...
A: Thats too bad he doesn't want to make things work but unfortunatly thats his decision. Your right ...
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| Can I get back with my ex? | 4/15/2009 |
Q: I was dating this amazing girl for 2 months. Then, we had our first big fight and it resulted in her ...
A: If you don't want to push her away then don't pressure her into getting back together. Its possible ...
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| girlfriend of over 2 years | 4/15/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend of 2 years and 3 months brokeup with me last wednesday. First she went on a break with ...
A: Trust me, I hate it when someone and I break up and they tell me theres other fish in the sea too.. ...
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| What should I do now? | 4/13/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for the last 4 years and for almost half of it, it has been a ...
A: I agree with you, you deserve someone who will love you and not want to break up with you. If he ...
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| five years a child and she act like it never happened | 4/10/2009 |
Q: I've Been Dating the mother of my child since I was 14 we dated for five years and in the fifth year ...
A: That is tough but it sounds like she's now enjoying the single life after being in a long term ...
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| I miss him too much to do my work... | 4/10/2009 |
Q: I am 18, and there is this 19 year old boy with whom I have been hopelessly in love with for the ...
A: I'd say your a little obsessed but its getting too much in the way of your life. You need to stop ...
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| She said it is not a good time to be together .. | 4/8/2009 |
Q: Ok, so my problem is that i have been with this girl for the past 3 months or so and it was great i ...
A: Well then your gonna have to respect what she's saying so that she can get the issues on her side ...
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| Can exs still be friends? | 4/7/2009 |
Q: My name is David. Over two years ago, I broke up with my ex and we decided to remain friends. Then ...
A: Well you can't really blame her then if she was raised like that and its her culture and then to ...
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| He came back!!! | 4/7/2009 |
Q: Recently I had gone through a break up, I'd say about 3 months ago. It was going really crappy, as ...
A: Its too bad you have to wonder if you made the right decision, but I guess you will find out after ...
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| Can exs still be friends? | 4/7/2009 |
Q: My name is David. Over two years ago, I broke up with my ex and we decided to remain friends. Then ...
A: I think both are way off base. For one, you shouldn't have to stop being friends with any ex that ...
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| Love is not love Which alters when it alteration finds... | 4/7/2009 |
Q: Sorry for the Shakespeare title haha. Ok. My question, right. This is probably going to be a little ...
A: Well don't feel bad that you fell out of love, these things happen, and sometimes you can't control ...
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| Troubles Moving On | 4/6/2009 |
Q: Hey Julie. I was wondering if I could get some advice on moving on from a breakup. Me and my former ...
A: Start going out with your friends, but don't make it about looking for someone else. Just be casual ...
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| out of sight, out of mind? | 4/5/2009 |
Q: As you said i just have to keep no contact and move on, if he want me he'll let me know or contact ...
A: No I think its best not to be friends til your healed and if he really loves you he won't forget ...
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| Boyfriend doesn't love me | 4/3/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend of 3 years has told me he never really loved me. I don't want to break up and I want ...
A: If your boyfriend says he doesn't love you then you need to believe him. My ex never really loved ...
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| what does he mean? | 4/3/2009 |
Q: I recently was broke up with my boyfriend,he is the one who initiated it. after that i told him i ...
A: Well I think if he wanted you back he'd have told you in the message. When he said he respects your ...
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| why is she texting but not really trying to talk? | 4/1/2009 |
Q: I have bin with this girl for about 3 years and its bin pretty up and down. the thing is that i left ...
A: Its hard to say forsure why she's texting. Maybe she wants to see if things can be worked out. Maybe ...
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| Isn't time to commit | 4/1/2009 |
Q: I have been with my partner for little over 3 years, all in all we enjoy each others company until ...
A: It sounds like your not asking for much. You just want what comes naturally in any loving, committed ...
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| Mind Games | 3/31/2009 |
Q: my ex just recently sent me a message via facebook, I have not added her or seen her in 2 years and ...
A: I'm sure its not a big deal..she's probably just seeing how your doing. And nothing more. I have ...
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| Help Confused!! | 3/31/2009 |
Q: I am 23 years old and have been dating by boyfriend for 8 1/2 years. About 6 years ago I had a ...
A: It sounds like he's totally making excuses. If marriage was important to him, he would not be ...
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| Bipolar? | 3/30/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and i have been together for a year and a half. We both have done our share of alcohol ...
A: Well moving is up to you but your right, your dealing with enough on your plate right now and the ...
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| long distance girlfriend unsure about taking a break | 3/29/2009 |
Q: "Hello, I'm 20, my long distance girl of 3 months is 19 and is not sure if she wants to take a break ...
A: I think she would still miss you because even though in the last two weeks you haven't been talking ...
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| Should I move on?? | 3/29/2009 |
Q: I am 21 and my boyfriend is 25,we have been in a relationship for 5 years.We are very committed to ...
A: It feels like you can't live without him but thats not true. You can live without him and if you ...
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| Heart ache | 3/29/2009 |
Q: I have not been with my boyfriend that long but when we first got together everything was great we ...
A: Sounds like he's being a little vengeful. I would just let this go, you were at least honest with ...
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| cheating and breakup | 3/28/2009 |
Q: ..i've been in a relationship for 4 years. The last year of the relationship is a long distance. For ...
A: Well whether you want her back or not is totally up to you, and how you can handle that she has ...
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| 5 Year Break-up | 3/27/2009 |
Q: IT's been 2 weeks since the break-up occurred. My boyfriend and I moved in together two years ago ...
A: Sorry to hear about everything that you've gone through but you do sound like a very strong woman. ...
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| Break up | 3/27/2009 |
Q: I had recently ended a two year relationship last September.. Although we had broken up, we were ...
A: Your welcome. Thats too bad she won't listen. If thats the case, just ignore her as much as ...
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| should i move on | 3/26/2009 |
Q: I've know this girl for 4 years but dated each other for 3 months I know ever thing there is to ...
A: Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. I'd just let her go, especially since she said she ...
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| Why did this happen | 3/26/2009 |
Q: Ok, quickly, this is the situation. I have been dating this guy on and off for like 4 years. In ...
A: Wow, sounds like you were dating my ex, same things happened except we never had children and I was ...
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| what going on? | 3/26/2009 |
Q: my ex and i dated for about 3 years but it was and on and off again relationship. we broke because ...
A: Well if she found someone new and is happy theres not much you can do to convince her you are better ...
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| out of ideas | 3/26/2009 |
Q: ok, so this is a very messy and touchy situation. i have been with my girlfriend for over 2 years ...
A: I remember doing the same thing when I was her age when a guy broke up with me, I was manipulative ...
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| Break up | 3/25/2009 |
Q: I had recently ended a two year relationship last September.. Although we had broken up, we were ...
A: Oh I know what your going through. My ex and I work together too and exact same thing. It sucks ...
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| What happened? | 3/23/2009 |
Q: I met a guy through one of my flatmate a few months back. We hit it off well. Later, my flatmate had ...
A: Its hard to say whats going on with this guy but sounds to me like he doesn't know what he wants!! ...
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| Break up | 3/23/2009 |
Q: I had recently ended a two year relationship last September.. Although we had broken up, we were ...
A: Well I wouldn't say she was necessarily seeing someone else before january, its possible she just ...
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| my relationship | 3/23/2009 |
Q: I just got home from Florida with my boyfriend, we were dating for 7 months, while we were in ...
A: He sounds really confused. I'd say since he did the breaking up, the best thing for you to do is ...
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| out of ideas | 3/22/2009 |
Q: ok, so this is a very messy and touchy situation. i have been with my girlfriend for over 2 years ...
A: Well it does sound like she has a lot of growing up to do. Your right, definitly don't treat her bad ...
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| I want my ex back | 3/22/2009 |
Q: A little over a week ago my girl friend broke up with me. It came out of no where, and I was so ...
A: Well for starters, its not fair that she just broke up with you without telling you the problems ...
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| Are we going to break up | 3/22/2009 |
Q: I am so upset at the moment and really don't know how to handle things. I had an affair 2 years ago ...
A: Well I think its good you two are taking a break then so she can decide what exactly it is that she ...
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| break-up/child custody | 3/21/2009 |
Q: I got my girlfriend pregnant 9 months ago and have attempted to make a relationship work but it ...
A: The only thing you can do is to get a lawyer. Since every situation is different, a lawyer will be ...
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| insecure ex | 3/21/2009 |
Q: I really need some help/advice. In the last 3 months, my ex-boyfriend has been harassing me. He ...
A: Was he insecure like this during the relationship? He's stalking you and that is a crime. If you ...
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| bad breakup | 3/20/2009 |
Q: I just wanted to run this one by you as I'm not sure what happened to me. I met this girl 2 months ...
A: Well on day 6 of course its gonna still be hard and very painful. It takes time to start feeling ...
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| bad breakup | 3/19/2009 |
Q: I just wanted to run this one by you as I'm not sure what happened to me. I met this girl 2 months ...
A: I think its best to let this go for now. She sounds kind of confused and probably just wants to be ...
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| sent flowers, no response | 3/18/2009 |
Q: well i sent flowers. my friend said she wasn't home, and left them on her doorstep. that was 9 am ...
A: I wouldn't call. If she hasn't thanked you yet for the flowers or anything I wouldn't. By asking her ...
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| sent flowers, no response | 3/17/2009 |
Q: well i sent flowers. my friend said she wasn't home, and left them on her doorstep. that was 9 am ...
A: She probably just wants some space so I'd leave her alone right now. If she was done she'd probably ...
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| getting someone back | 3/17/2009 |
Q: I wonder if she is really in to me? She has told me when we broke up and after she is very ...
A: I think you should be patient. Its frustrating trust me I know..but it does sound like she's into ...
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| Break Up | 3/17/2009 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend were together for a couple years. I had a problem with her past and her ...
A: The only way for you to move on is to stop texting or calling and looking at her social networking ...
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| getting back together | 3/16/2009 |
Q: advice on how to get my ex girlfriend back? we've been broken up for 4 months and we have been ...
A: Yes she will and thats very very important. It most likely will take some more time from the sounds ...
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| breakup or break?? | 3/16/2009 |
Q: broke up with gf,1 month ago. well she dumped me. we had been fighting alot the last few months. ...
A: She should just keep it simple. Not just drop it off and leave but maybe just tell her why she's ...
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| break-up | 3/15/2009 |
Q: ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.its never been the most desirable situation because ...
A: Your right its not the ideal situation. Thing is, you can't be with someone who is still married and ...
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| just split | 3/13/2009 |
Q: basically i was with my girlfriend for 13 months shes 17 and im 19, we have had our fair share of ...
A: I don't think someone who really loved you and was with you that long can just switch the feelings ...
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| break up | 3/11/2009 |
Q: ive been with my husband for 15yrs and married nearly 11 yrs,we have 4 young children.in 4 mths he ...
A: Have you talked to him about why he's so unhappy that he feels the need to leave his wife and kids? ...
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| Looking for advice | 3/9/2009 |
Q: I recently lost my girlfriend, I had known her for almost a year and a half all of which has a deep ...
A: If you want to be friends with her alls you have to simply do is call or email her and tell her ...
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| break ups | 3/9/2009 |
Q: Sorry it’s a little, long please read. My ex and I were together for three and a half years and ...
A: I think you are 100% on track here. I agree, you have to do whats best for yourself. Staying friends ...
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| second chance | 3/9/2009 |
Q: I have a problem that I’m hopping you could help me a little with. My most recent girlfriend of ...
A: Honestly I wouldn't bring that subject up to her again..it will just end up making her uncomfortable ...
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| getting back together | 3/6/2009 |
Q: advice on how to get my ex girlfriend back? we've been broken up for 4 months and we have been ...
A: I think she's confused if she's making the right decision or not...she sounds like she feels ready ...
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| getting back together | 3/6/2009 |
Q: advice on how to get my ex girlfriend back? we've been broken up for 4 months and we have been ...
A: I would definitly go with my gut then. She probably does just want to be friends right now and thats ...
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| can not understand | 3/6/2009 |
Q: i have been with her for 14yrs now we are seperated she said she did not trust me and that i lied to ...
A: Wow she really tried to turn things around on you didn't she? Honestly, she's probably saying all ...
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| getting back together | 3/5/2009 |
Q: advice on how to get my ex girlfriend back? we've been broken up for 4 months and we have been ...
A: Maybe try talking to her..and see how she feels about getting into a relationship with you again. ...
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| break ups | 3/5/2009 |
Q: Sorry it’s a little, long please read. My ex and I were together for three and a half years and ...
A: Well I definitly think she misses you by the actions you have said, but it doesn't mean necessarily ...
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| Dont know what to do | 3/4/2009 |
Q: I'm not the kind of a person that ever does this, asks and seeks others' help. But I can't seem to ...
A: I think truthfully you haven't fallen in love with anyone else because you haven't met anyone else ...
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| He said he needed time to think | 3/4/2009 |
Q: Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years , and we've been living together ...
A: Well the best advice I can give you is to give him his space, and let him come to you. The worst ...
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| how to deal with a breakup and wanting to get back together? | 3/3/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I were together for almost 2 years. We talked about marriage,kids, and our future ...
A: Well first off thats good that you have given him his space because by not doing so you'd only be ...
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| What Should I Do? | 3/3/2009 |
Q: we started dating when i was 17 he was 18 now im 20 n hes 21.. we broke up about a week ago n 2day ...
A: Yes its quite normal for a guy his age to not want to settle down right now. But staying friends is ...
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| Should I break up? | 3/2/2009 |
Q: Julie, first of all a big thank you for your time.. This is my problem.. Me and my bf are going ...
A: Well I don't think its fair of him to be allowed to do the virtual chat with girls and you can't ...
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| Moving On | 3/1/2009 |
Q: I was with a guy for 2 and a half years before we ended on reasonably good terms. The main reason ...
A: Its understandable that your are bitter but you have to learn to let it go. You have to start with ...
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| Heartbroken | 3/1/2009 |
Q: Six days ago, I lost someone I love. We lived together for almost two years, until he eventually had ...
A: Oh trust me I know it all too well, people say time heals all but really when your going through it, ...
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| Terribly hurt | 2/28/2009 |
Q: I really hope you can help me. I don't have much friends and at this moment I need one. My live in ...
A: To answer your question, no that is not a form of abuse what you were doing. The real silent ...
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| Contact with ex a little too soon | 2/27/2009 |
Q: First off i want to thank you for your time and input on this. A little background: I had been ...
A: Wow honestly sounds like something VERY similar I just went through myself!! Same exact story... I ...
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| hey | 2/27/2009 |
Q: my boy friend of 3 1/2 years broke up with me. He told me that it was different. I layed on the ...
A: Your ex sure is going through a lot and unfortunatly he needs to get some sort of help or go see a ...
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| break up | 2/26/2009 |
Q: I just found out that my B/F of 3 yrs. has his profile on a dating service. He recieved several ...
A: I think that was well written...I couldn't have done it better myself. Do you two work together? If ...
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| confused | 2/26/2009 |
Q: i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months, we met while i was in an abusive relationship with my ...
A: Unfortunatly there could be any number of reasons why he left..he could have a fear of commitment so ...
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| break up | 2/25/2009 |
Q: I just found out that my B/F of 3 yrs. has his profile on a dating service. He recieved several ...
A: Sorry you are going through this, that must be very hard.. It doesn't sound like he wants to fess up ...
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| boy problems | 2/24/2009 |
Q: these two guys like me & one of them wants to no why i like the other guy & not him. he also wants ...
A: I would just tell the truth but if telling the truth might hurt him tell him that you just feel more ...
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| hey | 2/23/2009 |
Q: my boy friend of 3 1/2 years broke up with me. He told me that it was different. I layed on the ...
A: Guys are better at hiding their feelings than we are trust me...going thru that myself..seems like ...
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| confused-where do i go from here | 2/22/2009 |
Q: I dated this girl for about a year, pretty much all throughout our senior year of high school. we ...
A: Oh trust me I know what your going thru. My ex and I broke up and he still loves me a lot and I love ...
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| confused-where do i go from here | 2/21/2009 |
Q: I dated this girl for about a year, pretty much all throughout our senior year of high school. we ...
A: This girl does sound like she loves you but just doesn't want to be with you at this time. She is ...
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| Break up with a co-worker | 2/21/2009 |
Q: I'm 41 years old and in April 2008 I became involved with a 23 year old co- worker as we were out of ...
A: Your not in a good situation at all. I can sort of relate as I got involved with someone at work and ...
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| Breakups | 2/18/2009 |
Q: My 'ex' boyfriend (27yrs old) and I (25 yrs old) were together for nearly 3 years. We always had our ...
A: Sounds like he is extremely confused and conflicted right now. I'm sure he really misses you and ...
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| will he come back! | 2/18/2009 |
Q: About 3 months ago, I met am man I thought was wonderful.After 20 years of marriage and 2 kids, he ...
A: So are you looking for a relationship with this man? If so you need to be honest with him as he's ...
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| Moving on | 2/17/2009 |
Q: Recently my boyfriend and I broke up, well now, ex-boyfriend to get technical. It's been really ...
A: Well he probably moved on in the sense that some people just deal with break ups by sleeping with ...
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| How can i confront my ex? | 2/15/2009 |
Q: Hopefully, you can help me before I confront my ex this Thursday. My ex an I broke up with no hard ...
A: I would just simply tell him that you want to move on but need closure and it would help if he could ...
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| cant stand it | 2/13/2009 |
Q: heres wats happening me and my boyfriend Daniel,age 13, have been together for 9 months and just ...
A: If I were you I'd stay single...your too young to get bound down with someone right now. Enjoy ...
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| Broken hearted =/ | 2/12/2009 |
Q: Ok I'm a 17 yr old girl I have been with this boy for two yrs. At first he was perfect. He talked ...
A: I think you are making the right decision. It sounds like you don't have much of a choice right now ...
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| Boyfriend problems? | 2/10/2009 |
Q: This is Rebecca and Ive been having this problem with my boyfriend. Im not going 2 say any namezz. ...
A: Unfortunatly being with someone with a drug addiction the chances are good that this relationship ...
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| broken heart | 10/21/2006 |
Q: how can i deal with this I broke up with my love today and I feel so bad i don't know what to do, I ...
A: When you first break up with someone, no matter who does the breaking up, its always going to be ...
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| thank you | 10/20/2006 |
Q: ------------------------------------------- The text above is a follow-up to ... thank you for the ...
A: I think its good you were honest with him about your feelings about his lying. Even if you two ...
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| Hi Julie | 10/20/2006 |
Q: Hey Julie, My name is Jen and I think that you are the greatest. I have read all your comments back ...
A: I know what you mean, can give advice but can't really help ourselves.. I totally know what you are ...
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| my ex keeps calling | 10/19/2006 |
Q: So if she broke up with me a month and a half ago why is she still unsure about this relationship? ...
A: Thats the thing, we never know whats really going on in someones head..or why they do the things ...
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| my ex keeps calling | 10/18/2006 |
Q: First off I am a lesbian. My ex broke up with me a month and a half ago. She basically is a ...
A: I think its best you stick to not talking to her..she sounds like she wants to have her cake and eat ...
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| Staying Break up! | 10/18/2006 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend seems like we break up every other week and this month makes a year since i ...
A: Oh I know what you mean..just when you think this is the final straw, they manipulate their way back ...
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| making him pay | 10/17/2006 |
Q: my question is ,me and this boy was only friends ,but we started having feels for one nother ,he ...
A: I would have a talk with him first and ask him about that, because you can't always go by what other ...
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| I want to get back with my ex girlfriend | 10/17/2006 |
Q: . i want to know how to react around her because i dont want to hurt her but i also dont want to ...
A: You need to move on..because this isn't healthy for you at all. Trust me, if she really likes you, ...
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| how to get past my breakup | 10/16/2006 |
Q: my name is mike and i am having trouble with a breakup. it's been 3 months now and i am still in ...
A: It does hurt when you find out someones seeing someone new, I went through this also with my ex who ...
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| Should I stay broken up this time? | 10/15/2006 |
Q: I was engaged to my ex for the past 3 1/2 yrs. We were together for 4 yrs. Everything had moved on ...
A: If a relationship is so much trouble, its really not worth it! The only thing that will happen is a ...
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| Bad Breakup | 10/14/2006 |
Q: I just recently (meaning 3 days ago) broke up with my boyfriend of a year. I made this choice for ...
A: I too was in a situation like yours...and even though my ex was extremely verbally abusive and ...
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| what's the Jekyll & Hyde routine about?? | 10/14/2006 |
Q: ...i'm a 34 year old Mom of 2 kids and recently my finacee and I split up much to my shock. Yadda ...
A: Yep my ex was like that too. They hate taking any responsibility for any wrong doing on their part. ...
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| I want to get back with my ex girlfriend | 10/13/2006 |
Q: How can i get her back? There was this girl i started talking to about 9 months ago. She had just ...
A: Heres the thing, while she still has unresolved feelings for her ex, she will never really be able ...
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| How can i get over her??? | 10/12/2006 |
Q: I know that i am only 16 and she is 14 and she said that she needed to have time so that she could ...
A: Break ups are very hard, one of the most painful experiences to go through, and what you are feeling ...
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| SHOULD I MOVE ON?? | 10/11/2006 |
Q: JULIE, YOU SAID I SHOULD NOT CALL HER, BUT THAT'S THE THING...I NEVER CALL HER. SHE CALLS ME ...
A: ! Well, when I break up with any ex I still go to them with my problems you know why? Because when ...
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| Was I only his rebound | 10/10/2006 |
Q: I met this guy two months after his girlfriend of 4 years broke up with him. We dated for a few ...
A: I was totally in his situation as well, I broke up with someone after four years, met a guy two and ...
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| what do you think? | 10/10/2006 |
Q: i was dating this guy for 2mos and broke it off in August he never called or anything just let it be ...
A: I think he is probably wondering why you broke up with him and if maybe theres a chance you two can ...
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| SHOULD I MOVE ON?? | 10/9/2006 |
Q: MY GIRLFRIEND AND I HAVE BEEN BROKEN UP FOR ABOUT A MONTH NOW. WE HAD A FALLING OUT WHEN I COULDN'T ...
A: I would honestly say she is moving on. But it doesn't mean she doesn't love you or miss you..she's ...
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| I start to cry everytime i think about him | 10/8/2006 |
Q: My ex-boyfriend and i broke up about a month ago. We had been dating for 2 years and the last 6 ...
A: Doesn't sound like things are going your way in either situation..have you and your ex had a chance ...
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| Should I move on? | 10/8/2006 |
Q: I was dating this guy. Not for a very long time but I developed STRONG feelings for him. Even though ...
A: If I were you I'd let go..he's being extremely selfish in asking you to be his back up in case ...
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| break-up | 10/7/2006 |
Q: About a year ago my boyfriend made a huge mistake in our relationship and stole money from my ...
A: Well if you believe your boyfriend has learned his lesson and has made positive changes and he's ...
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| What should I do? | 10/7/2006 |
Q: Me and my ex girlfriend broke up and now she has a new boyfriend. It made me alittle jealous and i ...
A: You need to be honest with your girlfriend, its not fair to stay with her if you have feelings for ...
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| Break-up | 10/6/2006 |
Q: I have only been in one serious realtionship. It lasted about 5 years. It started in high school ...
A: Everyone is different with how they move on...some people get over someone fast and others get over ...
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| Moving on | 10/3/2006 |
Q: and i'm 15 years old...right now i am in alot of pain.Today my girlfriend broke up with me.The part ...
A: Break ups are really hard, believe me, I know...Been there..a few times actually. The thing is, ...
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| My boyfriend says he fell out of love | 10/3/2006 |
Q: Julie. I will hide behind the name Derailed, a 26 year old male in suburban california who recently ...
A: Unfortunatly theres nothing you or anyone else in a break up situation can do to change someone ...
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| open relationship | 8/31/2006 |
Q: My girfriend of 4 years just recently decided out of the blue that we needed to take a break. She ...
A: Well theres unfortunatly no real way of knowing why she broke up with you and whether or not you two ...
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| help moi | 8/31/2006 |
Q: im only 17 n was goin with my first serious bf for just under a year, hes 19 and has had a couple of ...
A: Well to be honest, sleeping with him is going to affect you without you realizing it anyways, ...
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| Losing Three Years Thanks to Lying | 8/30/2006 |
Q: I am going to try to keep this neutral, but I apologize in advance for the emotion and the novella ...
A: I understand your concern but unfortunatly even if you warn him he most likely won't listen, he'll ...
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| Totally Confused.... | 8/30/2006 |
Q: I have had the best relationship of my life in the last year and a few months. Now, I am in the ...
A: It does sound like she's got some issues she needs to work out, she doesn't sound like she's putting ...
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| text message break up | 8/29/2006 |
Q: It is not that I actually mind, but I am 36 and my friend is 26. I saw all the signs and asked him ...
A: Well its not whether 26 year olds do it or not, I have known 26 year old males who do not act like ...
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| i broke up with a guy i loved | 8/29/2006 |
Q: ok, you might need some backround information. Im 17 and im pregnant. When the guy found out he ...
A: Sounds like he's not ready for the responsibility of having a child around..so he doesn't know how ...
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| should i try to get her back? | 8/28/2006 |
Q: I broke up with my girlfriend about 9 months ago.. throughout the relationship i didn't really ...
A: Its normal to not be completely over an ex even 9 months later, but just because you can't stop ...
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| I can't let go | 8/27/2006 |
Q: Me and ex boyfriend or ex lover or whatever you want to call him have been doing whatever you want ...
A: I was in your similar situation, boyfriend whose mean, boyfriend that started seeing someone else, ...
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| Boyfriend to College | 8/26/2006 |
Q: I dont normally consult in complete strangers for answers about my relationships, but my friends are ...
A: I think a break would be stressful for you, I know it would be for me, because you'd be in ...
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| How to get my gf back after 1 year and a half of dating | 8/26/2006 |
Q: my Girlfriend broke up with me at a football game yesterday and said that we can still be friends ...
A: Unfortunatly theres nothing you can do to get her back. If you have any chance of getting her back ...
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| Why? | 8/24/2006 |
Q: I never questioned our future together b/c it just made sense and felt right. Things started to ...
A: Sorry you are going through this..obviously your ex boyfriend has been having doubts about your ...
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| Why a | 8/24/2006 |
Q: I have been dating this girl for 5 years. We get along great, have a lot of fun when we do things, ...
A: Whether or not this can be fixed is entirely up to her...theres no way to tell why she wants her ...
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| break up | 8/21/2006 |
Q: heloo, well my girl friend just broke up with me.I'm a muisician so I travel alot'and before I ...
A: People can love someone and want to be with them but sometimes its just not possible because of ...
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| Break up or not | 8/21/2006 |
Q: I have been with my awesome girlfriend for nearly 6 years, its both our first long term ...
A: I would have a talk with her and see how she feels about your busy life..if she's happy with the way ...
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| best but worst relationship | 8/18/2006 |
Q: Julie, I just broke up with a girl that I have been with since I was about 16. Together for 3.5 ...
A: This is definitly an unhealthy relationship and it won't change, she won't change. She knows by now ...
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| Time and Space | 8/17/2006 |
Q: My Girlfriend and I have just broken up. It's been a week today. Last year we had an abortion, ...
A: No the best thing to do is give her space..of course the break up is hard on both of you, but its ...
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| Are we breaking up? | 8/17/2006 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for 5 1/2 years. Our relationship was fantastic until this summer. We ...
A: It doesn't sound like your boyfriend wants you guys to be together right now...I would not call or ...
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| breaking up, hope for the future with her.. | 8/16/2006 |
Q: Previous Question hi, i was with this girl for 6 months, and she broke up with me last week. she ...
A: Unfortunatly theres nothing you can do to make her like you enough...feelings are usually cut and ...
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| Breakup | 8/15/2006 |
Q: I was going with my girlfriend for 3 years and while it wasn't always easy going we had some good ...
A: Oh how I hate it when an ex can just turn their emotions off like a switch when they were so in love ...
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| break up | 8/13/2006 |
Q: My ex and i broke up about 2 days ago should i stop talking to him or should we be friends? should ...
A: If being friend with him is painful then yes I would say stop talking to him. Anyone whose ever gone ...
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| Break-Up | 8/10/2006 |
Q: I am desperate for any assistance. I met a guy, 2.5 years ago in my home country. He was working ...
A: It sure sounds like he has abandonment issues and maybe he does want you back but at the same time ...
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| breaking up .. | 8/8/2006 |
Q: i was with this girl for 6 months, and she broke up with me last week. she basically said that she ...
A: Sounds to me like she's playing games...if she really liked you she'd know. But she obviously wants ...
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| How to get over this anger? | 8/7/2006 |
Q: Me and my gf for 2 years ended things a few weeks ago. She broke it off with me but I knew things ...
A: Your feelings are completely normal..I totally understand..I went thru this also with an ex, I ...
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| troubled relationship | 8/6/2006 |
Q: Julie, My boyfriend and I have been on and off for 4 years. we dated in high school for 2 and then ...
A: Sounds like you have outgrown this relationship...thing is once a relationship is outgrown, and you ...
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| Confused and need advice FAST. | 8/3/2006 |
Q: All right, so I've been dating one of my best friends (male) for almost a week now, but he's going ...
A: I would not try to convince him to stick with the relationship, he'll just end up getting more ...
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| getting over a relationship i knew wouldnt work | 8/2/2006 |
Q: i was involved with a girl who had a child which from the get-go i knew would be a problem...i tried ...
A: It sounds to me like you still care about her but yet you realize you can't be with her! I know ...
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| Re: Why do I feel so weak? | 8/2/2006 |
Q: Julie, I broke up with my boy of 3 years three days ago. I hurt him badly. He has never cried in ...
A: . No matter who does the breaking up and for what reasons, its still going to be very painful. And ...
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| What do I do? | 7/31/2006 |
Q: I dated a girl for over a year... Really Beautifull girl. Shes 18 I'm 21. I have never been so happy ...
A: I don't think you are ready to be in a relationship, even if you do like your ex a lot..and going ...
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| Relationship Break Up & Love | 7/29/2006 |
Q: 1. What is cheating? My girlfriend slept in the same bed with my friend while knowing i would be ...
A: .. You ask what cheating is..usually people percieve cheating to be different things. Some think ...
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| Y IS HE IGNORING ME | 7/28/2006 |
Q: my boyfren and i broke up about one week ago..he sed we shud remain frens..i sed ok..but now he is ...
A: There is many reasons why he could be ignoring you but obviously he just wants to move on...and the ...
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| I am confused about my relationship | 7/27/2006 |
Q: I ve been dating this girl for over 3 months,and I have fallen for this girl really bad I cant bee ...
A: You and your girlfriend need to have a talk with each other about where things stand in your ...
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| break-up | 7/26/2006 |
Q: ok. it isnt much that i have a question. its more that im just hurt and lost and i need some advice ...
A: .. Yup break ups are tough, thats forsure. I saw red flags as soon as you said this guy does a lot ...
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| wat to do | 7/26/2006 |
Q: hey i hav been wif my girl for about 4 months n i really liked her alot. Then last night she said we ...
A: Break ups really are tough..I know exactly what you are going through and its normal..not being able ...
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| g/f needs space | 7/23/2006 |
Q: My girlfriend of 6 months told me last week that she wanted to take a break. the thing i dont get is ...
A: Thats tough!! Usually when people say they need their space, they really want to break up ...
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| Should I break up with him? | 7/22/2006 |
Q: 3 days before Christmas, this last year, I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me by pretending ...
A: Unfortunatly when someone cheats, it takes a long time to get over something like that. Do you trust ...
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| how can i deal with my break up | 7/20/2006 |
Q: i was going out with this guy we lasted a year and 9 months. we were always there for each other ...
A: Sorry to hear this has happened to you...unfortunatly people do move on, even if we still love them ...
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