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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| Broke up with my GF and we work together | 2/15/2010 | Dr. Dan |
| Q: So i was seeing this girl at my workplace, bad idea work and pleasure dont mix. I know now!! Anyway ... A: Im glad to hear that you learned your lesson about dating your co-workers. It is alot like dating ... | ||
| I broke up, but now I want him back! | 2/14/2010 | Dr. Dan |
| Q: hey... my boyfriend and i broke up after 10 months of date for 3 weeks now and i miss him soooo ... A: This happens all too often. Alot of couples start off really hot and heavy and then as some time ... | ||
| Im not sure if am in love or obsessed | 2/14/2010 | Dr. Dan |
| Q: I'm not sure if am in love or obsessed with my ex boyfriend. me and my ex were together for about ... A: Maura thanks for taking the time to ask for help. This is very common and I have done this myself ... | ||
| Girlfriend Keeps Breaking Up | 2/14/2010 | Dr. Dan |
| Q: I have been in a relationship for almost 1 1/2 years with someone I love very very much. Reasons I ... A: David thanks for taking the time to write in for help with this. I have been there myself in the ... | ||
| Hurt and Confused | 2/13/2010 | Dr. Dan |
| Q: Dan, In the beginning of January I made the hard decision to break up with my boyfriend. We were ... A: Marie thanks for taking the time to write in and give so much detail on this challenge you are ... | ||
| Im stuck | 1/15/2010 | Julie |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for four years now and he had moved in about three months ago. The move ... A: I find that very cowardly of him to tell you this over msn.. It sounds like he has some issues and ... | ||
| Make him jealous | 1/14/2010 | Julie |
| Q: "I have a friend that I really like. We have sex a lot, in fact there was a possibility that I was ... A: I would ignore him now..people always want what they can't have so dont' give in to him anymore at ... | ||
| he fell out of love for me | 1/13/2010 | Julie |
| Q: hey thank u for your help. me & my ex boyfriend had been together for 3 years we been through alot ... A: Hey Stephanie, Since your ex decided he wanted to end things and that was the decision he made, ... | ||
| Which road do I take | 1/7/2010 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: We met on the 24th of August, unexpectedly, and inspite of wrong numbers and misinformation, found ... A: I would cut my losses and move on allowing to give myself a chance to meet someone else. There is ... | ||
| My BabyDaddy left me for someone else and i still love him! | 1/7/2010 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: I found out i was pregnant 2 weeks after me and my boyfriend of 1 year(on and off) broke up and he ... A: He is definitely having his cake and eating it too. When he said to you that he wishes he felt ... | ||
| Need advise, please help. | 1/5/2010 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: II met this guy about 2 months ago. We both really liked each other and always had a great time ... A: I would definitely stop reaching out to him and let him reach out to you. If he lost interest there ... | ||
| Break up | 1/5/2010 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: so i was seeing that guy who i really like. it was love at first sight. But at first he didn't pay ... A: Stop being his friend and having any contact with him. Focus on yourself and then you will begin to ... | ||
| breaking up | 1/2/2010 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: I'm a mother of a two year old girl, her father an I have been together for three years. We live ... A: If you are sure that you want to end the relationship you have to do it calmly, honestly, firmly, ... | ||
| Confused and heartbroken | 1/1/2010 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: I was in a relationship for 3 years.I am 34 years old , he is 30. My boyfriend left me 3 days before ... A: Holidays make us very sad when we are alone.... BUT, in the grand scheme of things we are most ... | ||
| Adjusting | 12/31/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: I met a total stranger 15 yrs. Younger. We onlysaw each other once.email relationship lasted 3 ... A: Ummmmm... you are in a relationship so this is very unfair to both women. Concentrate on your ... | ||
| How to break up with him? | 12/30/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: I've been dating my boyfriend since Dec 5, a sadly drunken night. Anyways we went to highschool ... A: Sorry for the delayed response ~ I forgot to set my vacation settings... I don't know what your ... | ||
| break up | 12/29/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: My question is.. well my ex is the father to my son. We broke up about 4 1/2 years ago. We were ... A: I am so sorry to hear about your situation.... I am sure that it is extremely painful. I would let ... | ||
| two guys | 12/28/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: I have loved a man since I was younger. He never told me his feelings. I gave up and found someone ... A: You say that you love the guy you are with now, but you also love the other man??? Ok... how about ... | ||
| Broke up with g/f, but she still calls. Am I a backup plan? | 12/28/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: It was an intense relationship, with many ups and downs. I can give you more details if you like, ... A: The next time that she calls or text messages you ~ I would firmly tell her that you need space and ... | ||
| Break-up | 12/25/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: my name is Gabriel I’m 21 years old and I have ran into a real mess. Been with my girlfriend for ... A: Tell her the truth and finalize it. Give her a time frame to make other living arrangements, but ... | ||
| i dunno if i want to break up the father of my son.. need help! | 12/24/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: Good Day, first of all i want to apologize because my English is bad hope you can understand...My ... A: First of all ~ I can't even understand that type of lifestyle. There is nothing in this world that ... | ||
| confusing boyfriend | 12/23/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: My recently ex-boyfriend broke up with me about 2 weeks ago for reasons still unknown. We had been ... A: You need to stop being there for him and stop communicating with him period. He is having his cake ... | ||
| Heart broken | 12/23/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: Not sure if this is the right category... but IL post anyway.. sorry. I was friends with this girl ... A: Rejection hurts really bad..... and the fact that you work with her doesn't help the situation, but ... | ||
| Is it Love or Hell? I can't tell. | 12/23/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: Boyfriend of 7 months, the last 2 of which have been non-stop arguing and the previous 5 with ups ... A: Well, it could be some baggage that your carrying, but we have a very strong gut instinct and if ... | ||
| Is it time to let it go? | 12/22/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: I have been with my BF for 8.5 years. I had been fine with not beign married because I was ... A: You can always try counseling if he is willing to go and work on the issues.... If you force his ... | ||
| still in love | 12/22/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: Ok, a couple months back me and this guy started going out. He told me he loved me and i knew i was ... A: It is time to start healing. He doesn't deserve you anyway. If he left you to pursue someone else ... | ||
| dealing with break-ups | 12/22/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: . im from malaysia.firstly i wanna say sorry if my english is bad. i have been with my boyfriend for ... A: I think that you need to stop calling him and trying so hard. If he wants to be with you and he ... | ||
| breakup. | 12/22/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: My ex and i currently broke up. but he is in the army and isnt home. so i never got the chance to ... A: If he is not ready to be with you then please stop confusing yourself... and take the proper steps ... | ||
| Confusing Break-up | 12/21/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: Last week my boyfriend of about a month and three weeks told me that he needed a brake. He said it ... A: Yes... I would put it in my head that the relationship is over.... he was just trying to break ... | ||
| my boyfriend is in habbit of disappearing, please help | 12/20/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: My boy friend is 36 years old, I've known him for 6 months now, over all he is a nice guy but it ... A: Absolutely unacceptable..... A 36 year old man missing work is irresponsible... I would lay it on ... | ||
| breakup. | 12/18/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: My ex and i currently broke up. but he is in the army and isnt home. so i never got the chance to ... A: If there is a family member or mutual friend that you trust, I would suggest asking that person if ... | ||
| Dealing with break up | 12/18/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: I called off my wedding a few months back. I always feel very heavy at heart and even though I try ... A: Yes, it can result in you becoming very depressed if you aren't already. Since you have lost the ... | ||
| On/Off Relationship | 12/15/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: I will try and make this as short as possible - and I think even as I will write this I will know ... A: Unfortunately, you already know the answer.... Too much damage has been done and he still doesn't ... | ||
| third times not a charm... | 12/15/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years. We've broken up 3 times and I told him this is the ... A: I can understand your concerns completely and it is not too much to want a man who should be exactly ... | ||
| Bringing up the past | 12/14/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: My ex broke up with me in August this year. We tried to stay friends but he could never put the past ... A: We have no understanding as to why he sent the text message, but you are obviously doing better ... | ||
| Sex, weight and the future, should I break up with him? | 12/12/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: I have dated many guys in my 22 years and the before I met this one I swore I was going to go on ... A: You need passion in a relationship for it to work. It sounds like you want to experience life and ... | ||
| Dont know what to do | 12/12/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: .I have very strong feelings for him and its hard to deal with. Now that we broke up, I have been ... A: You need to block him from everything!!! Contact the phone company and do whatever you have to in ... | ||
| dealing with breakup | 12/9/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: . I have been dealing with the breakup of my girlfriend of a year and a half. Things were going well ... A: Always be yourself, but don't do so much too quickly and set boundaries!! Don't let this situation ... | ||
| Lost love | 12/9/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: I'm in turmoil and just don't know what to do with myself. I was with my Ex for 2 years before we ... A: I apologize that I didn't get back to you sooner ~ I forgot to set my vacation settings. I would ... | ||
| I'm no longer his priority | 12/9/2009 | ***ERICA*** |
| Q: I just read the answer to a question someone about my age asked you in your answer you said "We ... A: You are taking on too much responsibility.... these are all of his choices... he is choosing to not ... | ||
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How to Breakup/Deal With Break Ups
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***ERICA***
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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO
Experience
BBA
Expert in the How to Attract that Man of Your Dreams
Engaged numerous times ~ grew from a self destructive person to a healthy woman.
Hope to have helped many people go through this extremely difficult time.
Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple
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BBA
MBA
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