Expert: Julie - 7/26/2006

Question
hey i hav been wif my girl for about 4 months n i really liked her alot. Then last night she said we hav to break up coz she needs time to think abouta few thingz. NUMBER 1 is if she stil likes me n not her Ex. Wat am i ment to do, i cant stop thinking about her n i cant sleep eat or nuffn. I realy am lost, everything reminds me of her. BUt yet i kno we are brokn up. How am i ment to get ova this n try to move on. i realy want her back but i dont think we will. So how do i stop thinkn about her, n how long does it tak to get ova her. Shud i try fix it wif her or shud i jus move on. I hav only trusted 2 girls in my life n both stuffed me over. how do i learn to trust again aswel.
Thanking u

Answer
Break ups really are tough..I know exactly what you are going through and its normal..not being able to sleep, eat or anything. Thats all normal when going through a break up especially in the beginning.
I wish I had a magic solution to tell you on how to get over her quick but I don't..its different for everyone. Some people get over someone a lot quicker than others..

As for your question if you should get back together, I wouldn't even try. If she broke up with you then obviously she wants to be out of the relationship.
If she wants you back she knows where to find you.
You need to give her space, calling her will only push her away.
As for getting over this, take it day by day, its all you can do. Go out with your friends, its the best way to take your mind off of her.

Take care, Julie