Expert: Dennis777 - 1/10/2005

Question
My boyfriend of two years moved to the city, only an hour and forty minute train ride away, and he'd only be there for six months.  We'd make it, I know we would.  The within two days he left me a message saying he can't do this anymore, taht he loves me but something is missing for him and i should find someone who can love me as much as I love him.  This story can go on and on, butbasically in the end we cried and cried and promised to be best of friends and wheni would say can we take a nap together like when we fall alseep and watch tv, for the last time please, he said it wont be the last time, i promise, we'll do it again.  And when we talked on the phone i accidentally said i love you, and i said sorry, but he just  said it back.  But the huger problem is that he secured a date before he broke up with me.  So here i am sobbing my eyes out everyday, and he has something else on his mind.  Now i am 22 and he is 19, young-yes, but i think he'll be back.  I know him better thani know myself.  I need him to come back.  Help me

Answer
Hello Krysten.

Sending you a Great Big Hug.

This happens a lot and most of the time it works out for the best. He is young and imature. You are the only Lady he has known (for the last 2 years) and now he sees all this new and exciting changes in his life. He needs or at least thinks he needs his freedome. It will be short lived so relax and give him some time.

Dennis