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Hi, I know most people do it the other way round but I woukd like to know if there is any benefit in starting exclusive BF in the 3rd month. When my son was born I breastfed him but within one week I stopped due to mastitis, high fever and bleeding nipples which made it impossible to nurse or pump. I formula-fed him for the next 3 weeks with the intention of relactating once my breasts had recovered. I managed to rebuild my milk supply and get him to latch on, gradually decreasing the amount of formula supplementation each day. He is now 3 months and exclusively breastfed. What I would like to know is,  is there any point in doing this? Had the early formula-feeding caused irreversible damage to him and can this be salvaged by returning to EBF? I am concerned after reading the Virgin Gut article which I'm sure you know about.
I would be most grateful for your reply. Thank you!

Dear Ariel,

First, congratulations for persevering with breastfeeding your son despite the problems you had early in his life. And yes, there is a great benefit to continuing to breastfeed exclusively for the next three months.

Breast is best when you can do it, but breastfeeding is not an all-or-nothing affair. Some breastfeeding is always better than no breastfeeding. Furthermore, from my reading of the literature, the concept of the "virgin gut," with irreversible damage done by feeding formula, is alarmist and without scientific basis.

So go ahead and enjoy your breastfeeding experience and know that you are giving your son the best mothering you can offer.

Best regards,

Sally Wendkos Olds
Author, THE COMPLETE BOOK OF BREASTFEEDING: Olds & Marks, 4th edition, September 2010, published by Workman Publishing, and available in most public libraries, bookstores & La Leche League chapters.  


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What do you want to know about breastfeeding? I can tell you what`s good for the baby, what`s good for the mother -- and the father, how it`s related to a woman`s sexuality, how working moms can nurse, how to overcome obstacles, and lots more. As the author of THE COMPLETE BOOK OF BREASTFEEDING and author or coauthor of 8 other books and more than 200 articles about child and adult development, I can offer sound, sensible advice on breastfeeding, child care and family issues.


I nursed my 3 daughters and am the grandmother of 5 breastfed children. My book THE COMPLETE BOOK OF BREASTFEEDING (written in consultation with pediatrician Marvin S. Eiger, M.D.) was first published in 1972, and in 1999 came out in an updated 3rd Edition by Workman Publishing & Bantam Books. It is now a classic, with over 2 million copies in print. I am now revising this book for a fourth edition, consulting with pediatrician Laura M. Marks, M.D. This new edition will be published September 2009. I welcome any and all suggestions for the new edition. I coauthored college textbooks A CHILD'S WORLD: INFANCY THROUGH ADOLESCENCE, and HUMAN DEVELOPMENT; both are leading texts in their fields and have been read by 2 million students. I am the coauthor of HELPING YOUR CHILD FIND VALUES TO LIVE BY and RAISING A HYPERACTIVE CHILD, and author of THE WORKING PARENTS' SURVIVAL GUIDE & THE ETERNAL GARDEN: SEASONS OF OUR SEXUALITY. My newest book, A BALCONY IN NEPAL: GLIMPSES OF A HIMALAYAN VILLAGE, published in 2002, tells the story of the way of life in a remote village in Nepal, where all the women breastfeed! My book, SUPER GRANNY: COOL PROJECTS, ACTIVITIES, AND OTHER GREAT STUFF TO DO WITH YOUR GRANDKIDS, will be published March 2009. I speak often to professional, parent and general audiences and make many radio and TV appearances.

Credentials I received my B.A. in English Literature from the University of Pennsylvania, where I minored in Psychology, was elected to Phi Beta Kappa and graduated summa cum laude.

Other points of interest I have received national awards for my writing, and am a former president of the American Society of Journalists & Authors. I am listed in the World Who's Who of Women, International Authors & Writers Who's Who, and Contemporary Authors, and am a member of several professional and civic organizations. I believe: that all parents are working parents; that parents employed outside the home need special support; that mothers' well-being is crucial to their children's welfare; and that the family is the best institution in the world and the one for which we are least prepared. My thrills come when parents or kids tell me they were helped by my writing or speaking or just understanding. To find out more about me, go to

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