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Expert: Tess Date: 5/12/2008 Subject: brother and baby brother
Question my brothers r having like a supervillain teamup.everytime i try to calm my b(baby)brother down my other brother encourages him to refuse and go be crazy with him or annoy me in some way.he they also interupt my peace and quiet when im in a googd mood,IT DRIVES ME CRAZY, CRAAAAAAAZZZZZZY I SAY!!!!!!and whenever i caim down or reason with him he just does it again.once he promised my mom he wont annoy me anymore but he just did it again.its he has to annoy some one to survive in his life.please end this nightmare i cant take it anymore.
Answer Why not sit down quietly in your room and ask yourself exactly what it is your brother does that annoys you? If the response you get is a trifle or something insignificant, then do something about it.
Work on it so that it does not get to you.
Outsmart your brothers. Do not allow their antics to get to you? When your brother tries to annoy you again you have a number of options: 1) you can simply walk away so you do not hear or see the rest of this behavior or, 2) you can tell him if he stops doing what he is doing, you will treat him to a movie or a game or 3} divert your attention to something pleasant like putting on the TV or 3) simply not be too transparent that his behavior affects you.
Perhaps. if your brother notices that you do not react to his behavior at all, he will stop doing whatever it is he is doing that affects you.
