Brother & Sister Problems/My sister and the ex!

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I dated a guy who is now dating my sister. He used me and broke my heart. I've moved on since then and found a man i truly love who's taught me to trust again. Well, my sister is graduating and my dad is giving' the creep a ride so not only do i have to handle riding in a truck for hours, but also i have to deal with him at my sisters house with no other stay possibilities for either of us. WHAT DO I DO!?!?!

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Both of you have moved on. I know it's probably really annoying to have to ride with him but you're done with him. Just let it go. If there really are no other options than staying with him at your sister's house, you have to deal with it but don't let it bother you. I know how this is and it's kind of a pain. I'm kind of going through the same thing now with my ex but you can't let him get to you because you are with someone else who is much better for you. He's in your past. Forget who he was and focus on who he is now, which is your sister's boyfriend. That's it.  

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I have five brothers and sisters and a few in-laws. I know how frustrating they can be but I also know ways that you can become closer to them. I know that sometimes you want to be an only child but, trust me, your siblings are the best support group you will ever have. Building a relationship with them is very important with them and I would be happy to help in any way that I can. Please include your age with you answer.

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I have a lot of siblings and so do my friends and between us all I've been through almost everything possible.

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