Expert: Alex Wilding - 12/25/2009

Question
Am visiting a Indian restaurant and want to know a proper greeting for a respectful hello
 Thank You

Answer
Hi Robert,
That's very polite of you! Actually there isn't a clear answer, as it's mainly cultural. In other words, it depends on what country the people concerned are from. In many cases people put their hands together in a prayer-like gesture in front of their chest and bow slightly, but be careful not to overdo it - it is a significant sign of respect, usually given to "superiors", especially religious teachers, or to people to whom you are introduced formally. Using that gesture to much will make you look like a "wannabe", if you see what I mean.
You don't have much choice but to play it by ear. By and large, in western countries, these habits are just the local ones - show the people the respect you would normally show anyone in those circumstances, and do it in the normal way. They will understand.
Don't worry, there is no such thing as a "correct Buddhist greeting" that you need to know!
Have a nice time!