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Hi, my question is pertaining to requirements of Buddhism, are there any? Also i am very confused on the idea of loving someone, without being emotionally attached? How is that possible?

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Hi Kyle,
The "requirements" for a lay Buddhist are very simple, although the exact interpretation depends on the lineage and particular teacher you are connected to. Usually they call for you to train yourself away from killing, stealing, intoxication, lying and "sexual misconduct". I put the quotes around that, as the meaning depends so much on the culture you live in and the people concerned.
Of course, you can go on to a lot more. You can take more vows, study and learn more, do mind-cultivation practices like meditation and so on. Step by step, of course.
As for loving without being attached - tricky. But you can work on it!
I hope that helps at least a little.
Best wishes
Alex W

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