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I was born into being a Theravada Buddhist and was taught disrespecting elders and believeing misbehaved children who treat their parents rudely are punished by having the same fate done unto themselves. So I told my parents " Well then you should've treated my grandparents better." Its really unfair when my parents are too lazy get themselves a cup of water when your not even near the kitchen.
Hi Bo,
Kamma is universal. Action and reaction. No one needs to threaten you with the concept of kamma. If you fully understand the working of kamma, it is good enough for you to think and do the right action.
Respect for elders is also a universal value. If you want to lead a harmless and noble life, then the concept of kamma and respect for elders can be used as guiding priniples for your life. What ever your parents may say, the ultimate fate of your life is in your own hands.
Take care.
Justin Choo
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Justin Choo
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When in doubt seek it out. All your questions will be answered, and you may not have to agree with the answers. Such is the beauty of Buddhism. You are free to decide. I follow the Theravada tradition, and have been studying Buddhism for more than 40 years. Please view my profile for more details. I have answered more than 1500 questions since joining this category. You may like to give me the honor to answer your question.
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I was brought up in the 50's as a Buddhist. For the past 40 years I have read numerous books on Buddhism and listened to numerous talks on Buddhism by well-respected and learned monks and lay teachers. I conduct Buddhist classes for parents of Sunday School children in a Theravada Buddhist Temple.
My teacher was the late Chief Reverend, The Ven. K Sri Dhammananda of The Brickfields Buddhist Mahavihara, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. You can view the relevent website in memory of my revered late teacher @
http://www.ksridhammananda.com
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I am a life member of the Buddhist Missionary Society Malaysia.
Publications
YOU ARE INVITED TO VISIT MY BLOG @
http://lifeislikethat999.blogspot.com/
Published a book called "The Rainbow And The Treasure". It is a compilation of extracts from various sources to introduce Buddhism to beginners. (Currently out of print)
Education/Credentials
Bachelor of Commerce And Administration, Victoria University Of Wellington, NZ.(1974)
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