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whenever it is asked wether we need to shave heads or leave family life in order to become buddhist, it is said that none of these is required. we just need to understand the 4 noble truth and follow the eightfold path. then why do people become buddhist monks? i mean, what special thing does a buddhist monk do that a layperson following the same path does not? what is the advantage to becoming a monk and following buddhism rather than being a layperson and following buddhism?

Dear Gurinder Singh,

Thank you for the opportunity to answer your question. By the way, you ask some very good questions!

It is true that it is not required to leave the family life in order to be a Buddhist. Being a Buddhist is just believing in the Triple Gem (Buddha, Dhamma, Sangha) and observing the 5 precepts and living by Buddhist principles.

People become Buddhist monks for many reasons. I can't list them all, there are so many! Here are a few:

Poverty - monk life might be better than the life the already have
Heartbroken - trying to find a way to escape the heartbreak
Faith - such extreme faith that they can't help but ordain
Quest - searching for answers and hope that ordaining can give it to them
For parents - doing it as a repayment to parents for giving us life
Nibbana - for the fastest path to Nibbana
School - in some countries, schooling for monks/novices is free or very cheap

"What special thing does a Buddhist monk do that a layperson following the same path does not?"

It is the same answer as if I were to ask why a world class super skilled footballer (soccer player in USA) would join a professional team? Couldn't they just practice in their backyard and become the best in the world? They probably could. But by joining a professional team, they are surrounded by people who push and motivate them. They are surrounded by people who believe in the same things and goals. They have all the equipment and support needed for success all around them. Everything around them is gear and designed for their success. The skill level of the people around them is higher, thus pushing them to push their limits.

This is the same for ordination. In lay people life, there are too many distractions that can take us off the path. Too much food, music, fun, sex, entertainment, games, work, business, children, family....

By ordaining, we strip ourselves down to the minimum and it makes it so much easier to see our defilements when we are fighting over a seat instead of fighting over a company. We see our greed and attachment clearer when we have only 3 cloths instead of 3 closets full of clothes. It just makes life simpler for practice. Also, we are surrounded by rules and people who support and promote our spiritual advancement. As a layperson, we are not.

I hope I have answered your questions.  


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