Expert: Joe McSorley - 5/5/2005

Question
Dear Sir,
I don't known if it's possible to throw some light into this matter. I would like to know, briefly if it's possible, the basic teaching/behaviour or concepts of people towards their parents, or old people in general. Of course, in a Buddhist perspective.
All the best
Rory


Answer
Dear Rory,
  I think it would be hard to isolate a Buddhist perspective on this apart from the culture it is practiced in.  Filial piety is a large aspect of Confucian ethic and is predominant through most of Asia in one form or another.  It is important in Buddhism to realize our inter-relatedness to each other, all things and family.  Buddhism teaches compassion and respect for all and of course this includes family.  There is a Buddhist adage that says we must ever be grateful to our parents for it was they who brought us into the world as humans thus giving us the opportunity to awaken.  In this sense we should have utmost respect for our parents lives though not necessarily for their views.
 Sorry I can't be of more help.
          Joe