Expert: Justin Choo - 9/19/2005

Question
thankyou, and thats all it takes to be a buddhist? oh and it's called lay buddhism right?these are my aims in my buddhist life,, please review them and do what you can to tell me for any improvements or such. i aim to-

-Worship the three jewels in secret(it would not be taken lightly by my parents, but that means they may not appreciate it if they find out, which leaves me with a problem, a shrine. i planned to place small, light, flowers around the buddha statue and picture, but my parents may enter my room to replace clothes etc.

-be the best buddhist that i can

-have fun
if you have and instant messenger please tell me as it would be better in a live conversation. thankyou, but remember, only do a follow-up if you fell like it. don't force yourself or make yourself fell bored.Just think of it as a good deed:).thanks and remember Have a smile on your face, its a whole new day.

Answer
Hi Darren,

Welcome back. First, I must reiiterate that my comments are my personal opinions, which means you need not have to agree with me.  

Since it is not at all practical to have Buddha image or anything symbolizing Buddhism in your room, you don't have to display any of them.  Practise the Buddha's teachings in your heart, in your thoughts, words and actions.  Good values are universal.  Your parents will be happy to see your good values and noble lifestyle.  You don't have to tell them anything about Buddhism.  When the time is ripe, and when you have your own freedom, so to say, you can then do all the things that you like.

About "instant messenger", sorry I am a complete computer idiot.  I only know how to do this!  But please do keep in touch.  I will be here to give you moral support and share my experiences and opinions with you, anytime.

Smile from justinchoo :-)