Expert: Mark C. Robins - 3/18/2008

Question
Hello,

Me and my girlfriend are in a happy relationship, however, we have decided to
make a written agreement about the ownership of household items in case of
a future break-up. In doing this we came across a disagreement. About 6
months ago my girlfriend left her laptop on the roof of her car, resulting in
its destruction. I replaced it with another one as she did not have the money
at the time and needed one for school. As we discussed the ownership of this
item I mentioned that it was mine, but would let her have it as long as I could
keep the desk she paid for. I thought this was more than fair, but she claims
the computer was a gift and cannot take it back. I do not consider it a gift, as
it was something I purchased for her out of necessity. Do I have any right to
the value of this item? If it matters, we are not married or engaged.

Thanks,

Chris

Answer
In Ontario if you are living together for more than 6 months then you are considered to be "Common Law" and the laws on assets of the relationship would apply.
If this is a serious matter you should consult a Family Law lawyer.
If not you should try to work it out.