Expert: Susan Downes - 1/16/2008

Question
I recently moved out after I was assaulted in my home. I live in a condo with a dog I adopted from the shelter who is not aggressive, except while on a leash, something they had warned me about. She was a rescue dog, very kind to people and little dogs and she gets along with my lab. They think she was mauled while on a leash. She was also found in a condo, living alone. The owner only came by in the morning and at night to feed her. But surprisingly, she isn't my problem.
The night I was hurt, my lab was there. He didn't know what was happening, but he tried to stand between us. He even hid behind me. He did not attack at all. He seemed as overwhelmed as I was.
When I moved out, he began to behave aggressively. He would bark at everyone and charge them as a warning with his fur up. Do I think he would bite? No, but at 100 pounds, he can be intimidating. His bark is deep and loud.
He is extremely strong so i have difficulty with him on a leash. I use to walk him all the time but then he tore some ligaments in his knee and he can't walk as far anymore and running is something he really has to avoid. He and my dobie/shepherd mix (the one I rescued) get along good.
I know part of the problem is my fear. The dogs sense it and instinct kicks in. But I have already gotten complaints about my dog, he even scared a woman and a baby. Any help you can give is appreciated.

Answer
Dear Eve, I am very sorry to hear about your tragedy. Many times we assume our dog will come to our rescue, any many times they will, but often times they feel our fear and just do not know what to do. Clearly you understand his needs and the walk at the heel is so very important to him physically and mentally. You also have a good grasp of the fact that your emotions effect your dogs. Remember they need exercise, discipline and affection, in that order. If you have a treadmill, maybe you can begin by walking him slowly on the treadmill. Or just take him for short walks. But you must walk him at the heel, with him slightly behind your knee, so that he learns that you and you alone are the pack leader who will control and protect him. This is the beginning of building up that wonderful bond. If you do not know how to do this, go to local shows, be an observer at obedience classes... If at all possible speak with a canine behaviorist in your area. A behaviorist will understand much more about the psychological aspects of your issue than most trainers. Remember dogs do not hold grudges or live in the past, so let go of your fear and you will all move on happily. Please leave me some feedback and let me know how you progress. Warm Regards, Susan