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Canine Behavior/socialization between new pet and old


I have a shihzu that is unsociable with our new pit bull puppy. Our pit bull is a love and wants to play with him. It starts out ok but then the shihtzu starts snapping at her and does not give up the quest to play. I dont like to keep them trying as I am afraid they will get hurt. If you have any suggestions it would be greatly appreciated.


How old is the Pit Bull puppy?  How old is the Shih Tzu?  

It appears the older dog is establishing a social hierarchy.  The signals he is giving the puppy are appropriate and the puppy should be acquiescing (although still in the stage of learning).  Your Shih might be afraid of this puppy (I don't know how well socialized he is to other dogs).  If it starts out "okay" and the Shih then demonstrates "ENOUGH" and the puppy backs down, there is nothing to fear.  Interfering with this, trying to force the Shih to accept the puppy, is a huge error.  That puppy will quadruple the size of that Shih and is further able to develop (unless you HEAVILY SOCIALIZE HER STARTING NOW) a reaction to the Shih's social statement that can seriously injure the Shih before you can even get up out of your chair.

Find a puppy kindergarten for your Pit.  It should be ONLY positive reinforcement.  The trainer conducting it should have credentials you can SEE (not just membership in some national trainer's association).  Observe at least two classes before making a commitment.  Here is some info on a proper puppy class:

Unless there are serious temperament flaws, most puppies are "loves" in their neonate period.  It takes some degree of sophisticated evaluation to determine actual present temperament and predict what that means for the future.  A good and well credentialed trainer can do that.  NO CHOKER COLLARS, NO COERCION, only positive reinforcement.

I suggest you study Dr. Ian Dunbar's online course on Sirius Puppy Training:

Even breeds that don't really belong in "pet" homes (and there are quite a few out there) will benefit greatly from heavy socialization to people, children, places, other dogs, cats, etc.  The friendlier your dog, the better a companion she will be.  Ignore what you don't like, redirect to a trained behavior you can reward, and reward what you do like.  Keep the soon-to-be adult dog in mind at all times.

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