Expert: Torski Dobson-Arnold - 3/4/2009

Question
Hello William I have a question for you and appreciate the time you will take to answer it. I have recently been out of work for about 5 months until now. (I was going threw hard times and have what I believe to be an anxiety/panic problem I will be going to the doctor this week for) I did see the doctor before but was afraid of medications but it seems worse now so I need the help, and will be seeking counseling and cbt when I can. I applied for a labourer position threw some leads from family I got. I am 21 years old in 6 days and I have my 2nd year machinist and millwright apprenticeships started) I did the interview (with much anxiety haha) and my references checked out well! (even the terminated position place said I could be rehired there again which is great to hear) So I was offered the position. I am just about to start training next week and now I am having 2nd doubts about the job. It is very well paying and alot of great can come from it, the thing that is catching me off guard now is my anxiety (I assume) and that the work schedule is a 7 day on/ 7 off and then 7 night on/ 7 off rotating 12 hr day schedule. This seems like it might be hard to adjust and handle right now! I think if my anxiety was in control better it might be better. I need to pass a pre-employment medical screening where I am thinking they will ask if I might not be able to do the job for some medical reasoning. I will be discussing that there (anxiety being treated soon and the night shifts) Im not sure whatto do? Should I refuse the job now after signing some paperwork? (I still have to pass medical exam to get job) Or try the shift/jobout? I dont want to seem stupid or weak but I would rather not start the job either and then have to quit within a couple weeks. Plus my family (Dad, sisters) are putting alot of stress on me to take the job, especially my older sister since she helped me get the job interview and my dad because he wants me working have never worked nights before.

Answer
Drew:

I think you are drawing a lot of unsubstantiated conclusions about this opportunity before you even give yourself a chance.  Stop using your anxiety condition as a cop-out as to why you can't do this job.  You would be surprised at what we can do when we put our minds to something.

Think positively!  If they ask about the medications you are taking, have a note from your attending physician explaining your medical condition and any/all medications that you may have to take to treat this condition.  Have a conversation with your doctor and get his/her opinion on your new role.

I am excited for you that given the fact that there are more job seekers out here today than there are jobs, you were able to land a great opportunity.

Calm down and take this process one-step at a time.  It seems as though you are getting way ahead of yourself and psyching yourself out for absolutely no reason.

Congratulations on your job offer!

Claiming nothing but success in all of your career endeavors,

Torski