Expert: Taylor Sheppard - 5/10/2009

Question
Hello:

What are some of the mistakes someone just starting out in acting make? And can you explain the etiquette when dealing with industry contacts, as well as the finer points on how to act, and things to avoid in the field.

As you explained in your profile, and most importantly, how can someone make good decisions and avoid damaging mistakes.

I thank you for your reply and advice.

Answer
Hi Kenneth,
As a young actor I made a few big mistakes.
The first thing I can say to you is, any attitude you may have MUST be checked at the door!
If I had kids, I would tell them the same thing: "LIFE IS NOT FAIR!"
and in this biz, no room for whiners. If they don't treat you fairly, too bad. You can't argue. And you will want to. Or throw a huff...or something. Then you'd be branded "unprofessional" or difficult.
Also, yeah, you feel special and important when you get a part. But don't let it make you think you are better than anyone else, because nobody wants to put up with that and you look ridiculous to bystanders. The crew and other will appreciate you for NOT being a prima-donna. It's hard to face people after you have been an A-hole!
ALWAYS be prepared! Do not show up late to auditions or gigs. Be 15 minutes early! Know your lines in your sleep. Avoid (unless you are perfectly sure it's ok) asking the director or casting director about the character...they hate lazy actors! Also, your agent isn't your mama or shrink...they are busy and if you need constant reassurance, start a new career! -It's not their job to baby you.
ALWAYS train and network...don't passively wait for gigs to come or to be in shape. What will happen is you will be unprepared and out of practice and the golden ring will pass on to someone who is ready.
Also, don't beat yourself up thinking you didn't get a job because you sucked. Usually it is just that they wanted some specific look and you weren't what they wanted.

In dealing with industry contacts, the best advice is to play it cool. Don't come off as too overeager, nor too jaded. come up with, and focus on questions about what their vision is for the film. Be concerned with the story. Also, when auditioning, you need to have several interpretations for the piece ready. If they ask for you to "do it differently", don't give them the same thing you just did. They want to see flexibility. If you learn a monologue only one way, when you try to perform it differently.

Hope this helps!

Best,

Taylor