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About Asad Raza
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Hello, I am a graduate of medicine. I can answer questions about medical school and in particular medical schools in the Caribbean.


Experience in the area
I have done a lot of research and I have also maintained the website:
Caribbean Medical Schools - A Guide

www.CaribbeanMedicine.com

I am a recent graduate of Saba University School of Medicine in the Caribbean.


 
   

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Expert: Asad Raza - 4/28/2008

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Re: 30 old female inverted narcissist and borderline  ex cuter and ex heavy drinker:
What r the Qualities of a marital  prospect  that she will look for?
What will she settle for ?
Marital candidates:
 what age and financial range will she goes for?
Will she consider marrying someone a lot older than herself? Like her father who she was never close with
How old?

What type of financial base will she desire?
Work / occupation avocation?
Deeply devout after changing her religion an converting to Judaism
Irish Chinese background
Mother deceased has twin sister who is much less attractvie
father alive and in  his late seventies, as a child she new  that  daddy was  having  amorous and  intimate relation ship with  wife’s sister  while still living as friends  with wife who was her mom ,  at  16 or so  she   began cutting herself
later than age of 16 or later she refused to leave home and became agoraphobic but overcame eat when she realized she had to go outside or would end up never doing so, converted to Judaism form Catholicism, at 24 says she is only comfortable around and with three people, one a child hood friend, two her sister, and three a male 14 years older than her (me) any chance of her marrying who she is comfortable with, or uncomfortable with,
Given a choice of the two categories, will she marry the poor one she iscomforable with or a rich person she is uncomfortable with (does not feel comfortable around) or someone else or no one
Do borderlines and inverted narcissists marry?
How should one act around her and how to impress  this exceptionally beautiful girl who is very \shy and socially phobic?
What affect or impression will a man with a daughter have on her?
Is the daughter an asset and likely to make the lady more inclined to marry me?
Or a deficit and make her disinclined?
Or does it depend n the age of the daughter
She values family loyalty since her dad cheated on (openly) her special end mom (now deceased) she is exceedingly beautiful and acts very shy, unassuming and self abnegating but I suspect she maybe an inverted narcissist
How do I rich her?
For the baby question, does the age of the baby matter?
Infant? One yr old? 2 yr old? Or three yr old?
Etc at what age is the opportune time to tell l her I have a daughter how to impress such a person?
What type of personality will she bond with?
Self abnegating or self asserting or self aggrandizing
What other categories of marital configurations can u think of to shed light on the subject?
Does the religious stream have to be exactly the same as hers or is mild  variation in level of observance or orientation   important  or feasible?
How important is $$ academic status
Having  hobbies in common?ethnic heritage etc and anything else u can think of?


Answer
Hello!

thank you for your email.

You should find your answer on my main website at:

www.CaribbeanMedicine.com

and the very informative forums at

www.CaribbeanMedicine.com/forum

If you are Canadian, please read: www.caribbeanmedicine.com/openletter.htm

Also, my new book is called:

"Caribbean Medical Schools: A Journey and Guide"
ISBN: 1419681648

It is available on amazon.com, please click here:

http://www.amazon.com/Caribbean-Medical-Schools-Journey-Guide/dp/1419681648/ref=...

thank you and best of luck!

Asad Raza, MD
Admin - www.CaribbeanMedicine.com
admin@caribbeanmedicine.com

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