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Hello!

Thanks for taking the time to read my ramblings..

I have always wanted to be a police officer. It's been my dream since before I can remember.

I'm trying to get an idea of how LE will affect my husband and children. I know different departments have different schedules and things like that, but other than schedules, what other problems might arise with family?

Also, what is your feedback on women officers. Challenges I might experience, etc.

Thanks!

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Kara:

 If your husband is NOT a police officer, he may have feelings of loss of 'manliness' (you will, after all, be the one carrying a weapon and doing manly type things, and he will not...).  That might become an issue unless he is very secure with himself, and you doing what you want to do.  Your kids will likely worry but will probably love it.

 Most male cops don't have an issue with female officers, as long as they pull their weight.  You don't have to 'out manly' them, but you do have to do what they do.  

 So, if this is what you want to do, then GO for it.  Just have your eyes wide open going in.

Jason

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General Maryland Law Enforcement, Maryland Law & Traffic Law, the Court System. How to start the process to become a Police Officer, different Police careers, the Interview process, General Police career questions

Experience

18 Years experience as a local and Federal Police officer. In addition to working "the road", I've worked as an Academy Instructor, Law Digest Compiler for Police Department, Community Policing coordinator, Department Gang officer, Bike Patrol Officer, and Advanced Accident Investigator. I've also served on the SWAT/SRT team, and currently work for the Department of Army Police (Federal Civilian) at Fort Detrick, Frederick Md, as a Sergeant. I'm Certified as a Police and Emergency Medical dispatcher through the National Academies of Emergency Dispatch.

Organizations
Police Marksman Association Fraternal Order of Police

Education/Credentials
South Carolina Criminal Justice Academy
Prince Georges County Maryland Municipal Police Academy, Western Maryland Police Academy
Radar, Portable Breath Test, PR-24 Police Baton, ASP, Police Mountain Bike Certified. Maryland Police Training Commission Basic Instructor Certified. CALEA Certified Field Training Officer (FTO), Advanced Criminal Investigator School, Advanced Crash Investigator School, National Academies of Emergency Dispatch Certified Emergency Police Dispatch, Emergency Medical Dispatch, Emergency Telecommunications Operator.

Awards and Honors
Police Officer of the Year, Prince Georges County Municipal Police Chiefs Association (1995).
City of District Heights Police Officer of the Year, 1995.
Distinguished Service Cross for Valor, 1995 (National Association Chiefs of Police).

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