Expert: John Crandall - 5/6/2007

Question
My grandson will be graduating soon and wants to go to the Caribbean for a graduation present.  Problem is, what island would you recommend for six 18 year old boys to go it alone.

Answer
Hi Andie...Thats a very good question Andie. However, I'm not so sure you will like my answer. See, the problem is although the Caribbean is beautiful, it may not be the best place for (6) eighteen year old boys. Yes, statistically there are some islands that are safer than others, but nothing is iron-clad. What makes people safe on a Caribbean Island is the people themselves, not so much what destination you choose. Sure, magazine photos of resorts and hotels in the Caribbean look beautiful; and for the most part they are. But, what they fail to tell you is when a particular Island can be restless, depending on the type of traveler you are (Novice, Intermediate, Expert). One thing I can tell you is that no matter what age you are when traveling to a Caribbean destination, there are a few simple rules of thumb to follow. I could not honestly choose one destination over another just solely based on my own personal experience. I've traveled every Caribbean Island at least 6 times and I never found any of them unsafe. Why...because I knew where I was at and what I could, and could not do. I also educate myself about a place I'm not familiar with so I can adapt and acclimate better when I'm there. (6) eighteen year old kids aren't interested in culture, language, shopping, and history. (6) eighteen year old kids after graduation want to let loose and have a great time minus the academics. However, if they are mature enough to moderate themselves and understand a few things, then they all could have a great time and still be safe. This means traveling to a destination where water is purified or bottled, and knowing not to venture out off the resort complex at night, or alone. They should always travel in groups and never separate under any circumstances. Now, there are many Caribbean Island Resorts that offer very good amenities. The first island is Aruba. Called "one Happy Island" for its sunshine all year round. No worries of hurricane because Aruba is out of the hurricane belt and is south of the equator. Guaranteed sunshine everyday of vacation!!! I think the Aruba Marriott and the Aruba Hyatt are the two biggest and best the island has to offer in way of amenities. I assure you, (6) eighteen year olds can not get bored in Aruba. Again, I will reiterate that they should take organized tours and excursions in large groups and should never venture out anywhere that they are not familiar with on their own. Several other islands i find quite safe is Nassau Paradise Island, Bermuda, and St. Martin. Please remember this is my personal opinion based on my personal experiences. I truly have never encountered a problem with any of the Caribbean Islands. However, you do have to be smart even if one island is safer than another. Only you can be responsible for yourself and your own behavior. Ultimately, safe is determined by the individual. If you become reckless than it does not matter where you travel to. I hope this helps. I'm not trying to be discouraging, just blatantly honest. Best of Luck!!!

John