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My boyfriend's cat recently came back into his backyard with 2 kittens that resemble him greatly. He must've brought them in himself as there is a high fence. We haven' seen the queen around either. Why is he doing this? Does he mean to hurt them, or is just trying to protect them? I've never sen male cats do this before.

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Rhonda,

That is unusual behavior, especially if he is a tomcat. But there ARE males who are maternal. I had one that would get into the box with the mother and kittens and clean them all. I also had one male come home with a white rabbit (alive and unhurt)! If your boyfriend's cat had meant to hurt the kittens he would have right where they were.

Are they healthy? He may have found them abandoned and instinctively knew you would help them. Or he is bringing you a present...kittens instead of a dead mouse or bird. Whyever he did it, he's telling you "look what I found, aren't I a wonderful cat?" OR he had a custody battle with the mom over 'his' children, and he won. Or it was joint custody, he got two and she got two. Your boyfriend possibly is a grandfather and has grandkitties (smile).

Sometimes, only a cat knows why he does what he does. I've found that there is no "normal" behavior for a cat!

Tabbi  

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My expertise is in helping people understand their cat (or cats) and their behavior. Questions are welcome even if you don't have a cat....just a question about them. Hopefully my experience, suggestions, and comments will be of help to you...and your cat (or cats). Looking through my past responses to questions will give you additional information and/or answers too. Domestic Cats = cats (no matter what breed) who are tame or not wild, or abandoned cats who were pets that became wild, but can be tamed again. Ferals = cats who are born with one or more parents who were wild stray cats. They usually have had no interactions with people. They have an inbred distrust of humans and are difficult to socialize. They are skittish, hide, and are afraid of people. They take a lot of time and patience to work with them. A lot of kittens from shelters had a feral parent.

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