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I have one precious kitty.  We are going away for three days and I don't have anyone to check in on her.  I know she will be fine but I worry about her being lonely.  will she be okay?

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Joann,

Yes, everything should be fine. Trim her claws so she can't accidently get hung up on something, Put a couple of water dishes in different areas in case one gets knocked over (or leave the toilet seat up). Unplug appliances or things that aren't needed....especially something that can go 'on' if knocked over. Take any collar off. Just to be on the safe side, tape a notice by your outside doors to firemen that if there is (God forbid!) a fire or emergency that there is a cat inside. They have professional signs at pet stores like PetSmart/Petco/etc.)

Having a perch in front of a window that she can look out of would be nice. A kitty condo or tall scratching post with a sitting area on top would be perfect (and a good bribe for leaving her). Get her some new catnip toys, stuffed furry mice, or balls that she hasn't seen, and give them to her right before you leave to help keep her amused.

Some cats take it personally when their owners leaves them, so don't be surprised if the cat gets destructive or improperly eliminates on floors or carpets. That is a common behavior and reaction to being upset at the owners.

When you come back don't be surprised if the cat won't leave you alone. She may follow you everywhere and be under your feet for a few day until she accepts that you aren't going anywhere again and leaving her.

Have a nice trip, and don't worry she should be fine.

Tabbi

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