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Do cats bring presents to other cats? We have an indoor only cat who likes to stare out our sliding glass doors facing our street. Recently we noticed a small dead bird outside in front of the area he normally faces and today we saw a neighbor's female cat (ours is male) near our sliding doors. Does our cat have a new girlfriend? Did she bring him a present? We can't see any way the bird could have ended up there unless it was carried.

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Jo,

Hmmm, strange. I know a neighbor's dog that brings a dog biscuit to another neighbor's dog, but I haven't heard of a cat specifically bringing gifts to another cat. I DO have one cat that is a mouser (they rest aren't), and the one cat will catch a mouse and bring it home for the others to play with.

Cats do not have the human emotions that we have, but they DO have a kitty version of them. It is possible that it is a 'friendship gift', it's possible that it is to tease your cat, she could have been playing with it and it was a coincidence that it ended up there, OR sometimes only the cat knows the reason why he/she does something.

It's possible that the neighbor's cat is lonely and needs companionship. Have you ever thought of getting a large dog crate/cage (I will attach a picture of mine that I got at Petco) and putting your cat outside in it? You cat may enjoy being outside...but safely.

I hope this answers your question.

Tabbi  
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    CommentThank you! I will definitely try to buy a crate and see how he likes being outside this way.


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