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About Dear Tabbi
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My expertise is in helping people understand their cat (or cats) and their behavior. Questions are welcome even if you don't have a cat....just a question about them. Hopefully my experience, suggestions, and comments will be of help to you...and your cat (or cats). Looking through my past responses to questions will give you additional information and/or answers too.
Domestic Cats = cats (no matter what breed) who are tame or not wild, or abandoned cats who were pets that became wild, but can be tamed again.
Ferals = cats who are born with one or more parents who were wild stray cats. They usually have had no interactions with people. They have an inbred distrust of humans and are difficult to socialize. They are skittish, hide, and are afraid of people. They take a lot of time and patience to work with them. A lot of kittens from shelters had a feral parent.
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Expert: Dear Tabbi - 11/4/2009
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I have just trapped a kitty from my barn, Im guessing she is about 4 months old. She lets you pet her WHOLE body, doesnt allow you to lift her though and will eat from your hand. I have her brothers from last yrs litter here and they are amazingly needy, they are more affectionate and confident than my people kitty. But with this new little girl, she walks very low to the ground, croutched over and she constantly looks at me to see if Im looking at her but then she comes within a foot of me n as long as I dont look at her she will stay but if I do she runs. I have her in with my people kitty in my bedroom, which I still sleep in. I do not understand why she is still crouching, her brothers were not after the first 4 hrs. Is there any more I can do?
Answer
Jennifer,
That is typical feral behavior. Her brothers may have had a different father, one that was domesticated, in which case, the cat's behavior will be different. A cat can have kittens by each tomcat that bred her during her heat cycle.
Looking a feral in the eye is a threatening gesture! Try to avoid eye contact unless you slowly blink when looking at them. That means you are friend, not foe.
It takes a lot of patience and special handling with ferals. I have found that they prefer a neck 'massage' (massage just in front/above the shoulder blades# to being actually petted. I have 2 that will be 2 years old that I have had since birth. They are still skittish, and both will let me pet them for an extended time only when they have a toy in their mouth! Neither like to be held or carried, but both sleep with me. One will hide under the bed for HOURS if she hears a strange noise or sees someone. She crouches/slinks too. Ferals can be domesticated up to a point, depending on the history or the parents #whether one or both were feral#, but they will still retain their basic personality traits.
True ferals CAN become affectionate and loving, but it can take a LONG time for them to reach that point. And it takes a lot of time, patience, and love. And when they do reach that point when they are affectionate and loving, they normally still do not like to be held, restrained, and barely even petted. There is a human distrust that is inherited and inbred into them. They will never be like a typical domesticated housecat, but they can follow you around, rub against your legs, and lay next to you happily. Getting ferals as newborns or young kittens you have a better chance for a friendly kitty, but even then they still carry the feral behavior with them. Of course there are exceptions, but that is the standard behavior for ferals. They also usually only bond with one person. And will remain skittish and frightened of strangers.
To protect yourself from bites or scratches you need to watch ferals closely. They will give you warnings when they have had enough petting or touching. Ears will pin back, they may growl, but the main sign is their tail. If it starts twitching or swishing back and forth, the time to stop petting them is....NOW! When you have a feral that doesn't like to be touched....don't. Respect how the cat is and accept it. It will make for a happier living situation. Biting is a reflex action for protection. Pet from behind the head. Coming from the front is a recipe for claws coming out or being bit.
They are very sensitive, so do not yell at them and never hit them! You can undo any trust you have built up. They react to the tone of your voice.
They are natural hunters and enjoy being able to do it. They are happiest being able to be an indoor/outdoor cats. They like to be outside to hunt, but they also like to be inside where it is safe and not scary. You also will run across the ones that never want to go outside again.
If you keep them inside all the time then you need to satisfy the hunting urge to keep them mentally well-balanced and happy. Giving them a raw beef rib bone #I have the butcher cut them in half# satisfies the "fresh kill'. Plus the fibers help clean their teeth. They need stuffed toy mice you can throw so they can chase it and "catch" it. A pet laser light is great for letting them try to catch the "little red bug" on the walls, floors, and ceilings.
Here is a link that has a good 4-part article on ferals that should be of help to you in understanding their behavior.
(copy and paste, or type, the whole link into your address bar)
http://petplacestation.com/articles/?s=jacobi%26paged=2
Patience and time, accepting them and their behavior for what they are, and not trying to force them to be a social domesticated housecat are the basic keys to success with ferals.
Tabbi
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