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Expert: Dear Tabbi - 3/30/2009


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My 2 year old orange tabby Tigger, just started crying outside my friend's
bedroom after my friend has gone to sleep. Tigger has the run of the apartment
including MY bedroom and we have a 1 year old  2nd cat that he gets along well
with.When I hear Tigger cry, I get up and " shoo" him away but he keeps coming
back. Help!!!

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Catherine,

Is Tigger neutered? And/or your 2nd cat? If not, you need to get him/them fixed as soon as possible. That stops a lot of behavior problems.

Does Tigger have free choice dry food that he can munch on when he gets hungry? Maybe he might get the "wake up and feed me" munchies at night.

Play with him right before you go to bed. A pet laser light is an excellent interactive toy (you can get them at PetSmart, Petco, etc.) A good play session before bedtime will tire him out, which is essential for a good nights sleep for you both! Then give him a can of catfood (or his big meal) after you play with him, just before you go to bed. That way he will have a full tummy, be tired from playing, and will sleep longer (hopefully!).

Is there a reason Tigger can't go into your friend's bedroom? For some reason he either wants to be in that room or he want's to be with your friend.

Shooing won't work to discourage him. It's attention he trying to get and you trying to shoo him is giving it to him. The way to stop him waking you up is to ignore him. COMPLETELY! It is very difficult to do and annoying, but you can NOT acknowledge his actions in ANY way. He will EVENTUALLY stop when he doesn't get any reaction or attention from you, or anyone else. You HAVE to be consistent though. If you react even once to him, then it won't work, and it will be worse because the cat will know if he does it long enough eventually you WILL react, so he will keep it up longer.

DO NOT punish the cat.  He is only trying to get your attention and tell you his wants the only way he knows how. If some behavior got your attention before, then that is how he will do it again...and again.

I hope this helps.

Tabbi

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