Expert: Rick Jackson - 9/2/2008

Question
My 78 yr old mother and some of her girl friends have begun to doubt their faith in God. They don't seem the least bit concerned - just matter of factly telling me this. My mother told me that several ancient cultures believed in a virgin birth before Jesus was born and said she's not sure there is a heaven and she's very casual about it. I've suggested she and her friends take a Bible study course and that it will increase her faith like it did mine. I live 1,000 miles away so I can't sit down with her to discuss. Where would I begin to find out where this doubt comes from and why she seems resigned to it.  She's in good health and is not depressed, still attends church but isn't really looking to the church to increase her faith. She's not the type to talk to her priest. It's completely contrary to how she raised her children and is disconcerting to me.  Have you experienced this with older Catholics and if so, what would you say to get them back on track seeking out Jesus in their lives?
Thanks for any advice you can give me.

Answer
Hi Susan.

What you are seeing can happen in any age group.  I am sorry to say that I can not give you an "answer" but only encouragement.  My father is similar.  Pray for your mother as you do/would for your children.  

God is stronger than us. These are the times when our own faith is being tested too.  Can we live the example as we should to let Christ's Truths shine through?  Can we be diligent and continue to pray? Can we "hang in there" and trust God?

Look for opportunities [that God gives you] to talk...in a way where she won't be defensive.

Also remember that you cannot know her heart.  She is still God's child. I can only imagine that He is speaking to her even as we speak.

Peace and Blessings, Susan.

Rick.