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Dear Brother Ignatius,
Can you please tell me how to address a Reverend or a Father in a letter.  Is there a difference between the two?  

Tamara M. Carless


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Dear Tamara:

The word "reverend" means "deserving reverence" and identifies a person as clergy. Father specifically identifies the clergyman as a priest.

The forms of address various clergy and Religious are:

SECULAR PRIESTS:
Address on envelope:
Rev. (full name); or
Rev. Father (full name); or
Father (name)

Salutation: Dear Father:

Concluding a letter:
Respectfully yours in Christ,

In personal speech: Father



RELIGIOUS ORDER PRIESTS:
Address on envelope:
Rev. (full name) (adding letters designating his Order); or
Father (full name) (adding letters designating his Order)

Salutation: Dear Father:

Concluding a letter:
Respectfully yours in Christ,

In personal speech: Father



BROTHERS:
Address on envelope:
Brother (name) (adding initials designating his Order.)

Salutation: Dear Brother (name)

Concluding a letter: Respectfully yours in Christ,

In personal speech: Brother



BROTHER SUPERIOR (non priest):
Address on envelope:
Brother (full name) (adding initials designating his Order.)

Salutation: Dear Brother (name)

Concluding a letter: Respectfully yours in Christ,

In personal speech: Brother



ABBOTS:
Addressing a letter:
Right Reverend (full name)(adding letters designating his Order) Abbott of ______

Salutation: Right Reverend Abbot:

Concluding a letter: Yours respectfully in Christ,

In personal speech: Father Abbot



SISTERS:
Address on envelope:
Sister (name)

Salutation: Dear Sister (name)

Concluding a letter: Respectfully yours in Christ,

In personal speech: Sister



MOTHER SUPERIOR (or MOTHER GENERAL):
Addressing a letter:
The Reverend Mother Superior (General)
Convent of______;  or
The Reverend Mother (name) (adding initials of her Order.)

Salutation: Dear Reverend Mother:

Concluding a letter: Respectfully yours,

In personal speech: Mother



BISHOPS:
Addressing a letter:
Most Reverend (full name)
Bishop of ______

Salutation: Your Excellency:

Concluding a letter: Asking Your Excellency's blessing, I am, Yours respectfully,

In personal speech: Bishop



ARCHBISHOPS:
Addressing a letter:
Most Reverend (full name)
Archbishop of ___________

Salutation: Your Excellency:

Concluding a letter: Asking Your Excellency's blessing, I am, Yours respectfully in Christ,

In personal speech: Your Excellency



CARDINALS:
Addressing a letter:
His Eminence (Christian name) Cardinal (Surname) (If an archbishop or bishop give title and see)

Salutation: Your Eminence:

Concluding a letter: Asking the blessing of Your Eminence, I am, Yours respectfully in Christ,

In personal speech: Your Eminence



THE POPE:
Addressing a letter:
His Holiness Pope (name)

Salutation: Most Holy Father; or Your Holiness:

Concluding a letter: I have the honor to profess myself with the most profound respect, your Holiness' most obedient and humble servant.

In personal speech: Your Holiness  

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