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My husband and I are both Catholic. We were married in the Catholic church 24 years ago. He wants "out of the marriage" and moved out 2 & 1/2 months ago.  What EXACTLY does the church consider infedelity and/or adultery to be? I am not sure of his activities since he left. Has he nulified our marriage? I'm praying for a reconcilation.

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                       Peace

Dear Melanie
     Sadden by your situation, so I pray I can be of some help beyond a bit of comfort.  I would say infedelity would probly be an act against the marriage covenant. Adultry would be an of sexual misconduct again the marriage covenant.
  When say nulified I am not sure what you mean? If you mean would the Church give you a "decree of annulment" because of his current action, the simple answer is NO!.
A decree of annulment is a statement that says despite appearnce the sacrament of Holy Matriony never really took place. So its based on events and personalities before the exchange of vows.
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                          george  

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I am willing to attempt to answer any question. If I don’t know the answer, I will look-up or pass the question on to friends for feed back. Beside Catholicism (especially the social/moral and the Eastern rites), I am well read on Mormonism and so-called Modern Christian Fundamentalism. Also I study Franciscan History as means of growing in my lay Franciscan calling to holiness in Christ.

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20+ years as the Justice and Peace Laison for my (local)Secular Franciscan Fraternity,22+ years public speaking on the Faith,and/or teaching CCD and Youth Retreats,a former Officer for K of C and my SFO Fraternity,still hold appointed offices in local SFO fraternity

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Catholic Church, Rome Rite
Secular Fraciscan Order
Knights of Columbus
The Men's Study (A local Catholic study group I co founded)
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Militia Immaculata(Knights of the Immaculate

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Local News Letters:Mostly my Poetry


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2 years of Minor Seminary
Bible and Adult Faith Studies and Seminars

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