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When my partner and I moved in together a year and a half ago, we both had two cats.  We followed the whole kitty-introduction-protocol by keeping each couple separate from the other for about a week or so, while rubbing their scents around each other.  For some reason, though, two of the cats, one of mine and one of my partner's are still having problems around each other.  Gretel, my female cat, has taken over the loft, hissing and growling whenever either of my partner's cats (one male and one female) comes up - which they do frequently, seemingly to taunt her!  We have put them all in a routine where the other three cats have reign of the house during the day and are put in the basement for the night so Gretel can come down from the loft for a few hours.

My partner's male cat, Queue, is an older cat who she got off the street about 4 years ago.  He gets along fine with the others, but will sit under the loft watching Gretel above him and make sad moaning sounds.  We also have problems with him peeing in several different areas of the home.  He's been checked for a urinary tract infection - it came back negative.  We keep the litter boxes clean and have four different boxes around the home.  We have tried Feli-way, Nature's Miracle and several other cleaning agents to deter him from returning to the same spots, but nothing has helped.  We even put aluminum foil down on those spots for over a month.  But as soon as we removed it, he went right back to peeing in the same spots.

So, we already have some problems we're not sure how to address.  But now, on top of everything else, we need to move again.  This time, we will be to a much smaller apartment with practically no way of separating the feuding cats.  Is there ANYTHING we can do to make this work???  I can't imagine getting rid of any of our cats - we both love them all so much.  But I don't know if it's the best thing for them to all stay together.

I don't think I mentioned: They are two male cats and two female cats.  All are spayed/neutered.  Queue, though, was neutered very late in life.  We are guessing that Queue is about 8 years old, Gretel is 4, Qwerty (female) is 3, and Puck (male) is 2.

Sorry for the long post. Thanks so much for any help you can provide!

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Hi Andrea,

You do have your hands full. I'll try to help you. Queue sounds like he is very territorial. You might talk with your vet about using an antihistamine called cyproheptadine (Periactin). It has a prozac like affect on cats. This might help calm him down so he won't be stalking. I think that this will be your best bet with him.

The move will also present a problem for all the cats. But this also may help you out. They are all going to be a little put out about the move so they might not be looking to go after each other.

The most likely reason for Q to be urinating in the same spot is his smell is still there. You need to really clean the spots. Here's what I do. First I clean the spot with a really good detergent type cleaner. I use a product called Fabulosal. I then clean the area with an enzymatic cat urine cleaner. I then use a light bleach wash. And then I wash the area with the detergent again. And give it a final spray of the cat urine cleaner. It sounds like a lot of work but if there is any of his scent there he will go right back there and use the area again.

I hope some of this will help you. I made a move to a smaller place and I had a problem similar to yours. I had to make safe area in my bathroom for the cat that was being picked on. There were 5 of my cats that would go after her. She had a bed under the sink cabinet and a litter box by the toilet. She was happy there. It was the best solution until we moved again and she had her own room. Good luck.

Ciao, Karen

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I can give advice on cat behavior. I can help about newborn kitten care. I can help with senior cat care. I can answer questions about cat proofing a home or making it cat friendly. I can answer diet questions. I can answer home treatments questions for cats. At present I have 13 cats in home and two ferals outside. And there's always room for one more!

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I have over 40 year's experience with cats. Father was a veterinarian and I assisted him in his work. I have 15 cats at present. Most are shelter or feral rescues. I have one purebred cat. I have done cat rescues and foster care. Some thoughts to carry with you. A Cat's 10 Commandments My life is likely to last 15-20 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful. Give me time to understand what you want of me. Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being. Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your friends, your entertainments. But I have only you. Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me. Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it. Before you swat me, before you strike me, remember that I have teeth that could draw blood. And claws to strike back. And yet I choose not to attack you. If I don't act right then have me checked to see what is wrong. Please take care of me when I grow old. You too will grow old. On the difficult journey, on the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there. Because I love you so. Take a moment today to thank God for your pets. Enjoy and take good care of them. Life would be a much duller, less joyful thing without God's critters. Pass this on.

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