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I had to cats. One became missing 3 days ago. The other I have had since he was a kitten & he has never been alone due to my older cat that i had 2yrs. With the other cat being missing, my 2nd cat is crying whenever he is left alone. I'm not able to drive him around with me & his crying I'm afraid will disturb the other hotel guess. How do i handle a lonely & depressed cat without his buddy & make him feel better. He is 7months old & as I stated earlier, he has never being alone.

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Aerica,

It sounds like you are in a pretty tough situation at the moment. I have a couple of relatively simple and inexpensive ideas that you may want to try. I really hope that they help. You could try a homeopathic remedy called Bach's Rescue Remedy which is a blend of flower essences designed to calm and reassure. You can usually find Rescue Remedy in health food/natural health stores for around $15 CAN. I would recommend that you try a dose of around 7 drops in fresh water each morning. You may see a substantial improvement in his anxiety levels. It's also worth trying to turn the TV on low before you leave. Maybe if your cat doesn't feel all alone he won't cry and a TV or radio is about the best way to help him feel less alone when you can't be around. I hope that you find your missing kitty.

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I am the proud guardian of 5 mixed breed cats ranging from 12 weeks to 13 years old and one purebred ragdoll. I have 20+ years experience working with mixed breed cats from a variety of different situations. I have fostered cats/kittens with special needs/behavioral issues. I have rescued/rehabilitated/re-homed a variety of stray/abused cats. I can offer advice on managing feral cat colonies, rehabilitating strays and finding them forever homes. I can help you to determine whether a cat is stray or feral, there IS a significant difference. Improperly introducing a new cat/kitten can result in aggression between newly introduced cats because cats are territorial by nature and they don't like sudden changes in their environment. To learn more about a peaceful way to introduce a new cat into a home with other cats please check out my previous answers on this subject. Proper nutrition for cats can be confusing, I recommend checking out catinfo.org which was created by a veterinarian (Dr. Lisa Pierson) who takes a common sense approach to explaining feline nutrition. Cat behavior and instincts are different from those of humans, I can help you understand your cat's needs so that you can meet them adequately and have a balanced, psychologically and physically sound kitty. Cats vary in personality, energy level and intelligence, different approaches may be required to achieve results in terms of training and interaction with your feline companion. An intelligent, high energy cat must be kept busy or they will make their own fun. I am NOT a licensed veterinarian and I can't offer medical advice. If your cat is ill/injured my advice is always the same: get prompt medical treatment provided by a veterinarian. If finances are an issue I will try to find resources in your area that can help with medical costs or make other choices to ensure the welfare of your cat.

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I have fostered feral and stray cats, rehabilitated and homed cats that many people recommended euthanasia for. I am willing to make an effort to do the research and ask questions because I care enough to find solutions to behavioral problems rather than giving up. I have an interest in the use of alternative therapies to help provide the best possible care for all cats and I can say in all honesty that I've seen some incredible things happen for some incredible cats and their human caregivers when the right alternative therapeutic modality is used by a qualified veterinarian with expertise and experience in the field.

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