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Expert: - 10/12/2008


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i adopted two cats a month ago.  hey are oriental short hairs.  one kisses me all the time and wants to be with me.  the other one will not let me pet her or pick her up and looks afraid.  she will lay down next to me but if i even look at her she runs away.  what can i d o?

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Hi
some cats are just more timid than others and may not have had the same socialisation when they were small kittens which makes them more afraid of people etc. My best advice is to read my page about bonding with your cat here http://www.our-happy-cat.com/new-cat.html

It may take some time, but it is possible to build a strong relationship with a timid cat.

best wishes Kate
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Kate Tilmouth

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I can answer most day to day cat problems encountered by owners. I have a good understanding of cat behaviour and problems which may arise from changes to their daily routine. I can advise on cat training including litter training and general day to day cat care issues. I am not a vet and therefore cannot answer medical questions.

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I run my own cat website at http://www.our-happy-cat.com and have been a dedicated cat owner for over 20 years. I have encountered many different cat problems and situations and feel that i have a good understanding of cats and cat ownership.

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I am a platinum member of Ezinearticles where i write mainly cat related articles.

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Educated to High School level and have since worked for many years in a customer support based environment, gaining vocational qualifications.

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