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I need some advice on a problem I've having with my two cats.

Tryx and Traylee are three-and-a-half years old, sisters and normally get
along beautifully. They play together, sleep together and give each other
baths.

My husband worked the late shift Monday night, went to bed at 6 a.m. and
said the cats were sleeping together in their cat tree, so something happened
between 6 a.m. and 10 a.m. on Tuesday morning (Nov. 4). I came downstairs
to find Tryx underneath the kitchen table growling and hissing at her sister,
Traylee. Her tail was all wet and there was some loose stool on the floor. They
playfight, but have never hissed or growled at each other before, so I
immediately thought something must be wrong. My husband and I took Tryx
to the vet and the vet told us she had a bacterial infection in her gut. When
we got home, the hissing and growling continued whenever Traylee was in
Tryx's line of sight and then they had a horrific cat fight. My husband doesn't
think they actually hit each other, but it sure sounded awful. Yesterday,
Traylee was eating and saw Tryx heading toward the litter box and ambushed
her when she was walking into it. They had another fight with spraying,
hissing and growling. After this, I separated them and put Tryx in the
basement and Traylee upstairs, which probably wasn't the best thing to do,
but I didn't know what else to do.

I called the vet twice last week, but all they told me to do was rub a towel on
Tryx and then let Traylee smell it and vice versa. They also told me since Tryx
was at the vet, she would smell different and it would take time for them to
get used to each other. I've taken them to the vet separately before and
they've never acted like this. In fact, when I had to take Traylee to the vet and
she had to stay overnight, Tryx stayed at the front door and didn't move until
Traylee came back home.

My husband doesn't think Tryx was ever sick at all, since she didn't actually
have diarrhea and was just mad at Traylee for something. He also thinks we
should just let them be and they'll work out their problems. Someone at work
said they had a similar problem, and confined them in a small room together.
I'm hesitant to do that because I don't want them to hurt each other.

Last night, when I was downstairs with Tryx, she came up the stairs because
she heard Traylee crying upstairs. Once she got near the top, she started
hissing and growling. A little later, Traylee was crying again, they both looked
under the crack underneath the door and Traylee hissed at Tryx and she
hissed and growled back.

How can I get my normally loving cats to love each other again?

ANSWER: Hi Carolyn,

It sounds like you have a couple of problems going on. The most likely thing that set them off was one or both of them saw a strange cat outside. This set them off in a case of redirected aggression. This in itself takes a little time for them to calm down. The best thing to do is to close the blinds, separate them until they calm down and reintroduce them. But you also took Tryx to the vet. Now in and of that itself would have been no problem. But they were agitated with each other. So this set up another layer of aggression towards each other.

You need to reintroduce the both of them together as if they were two strange cats coming into your house. Here's one that gives you a good guide to how to do it. http://www.sfspca.org/behavior/cat_library/cat2cat-intro.pdf
Follow this and in about two weeks all should be well. Just make sure that you take both to the vets together now. And chase any strays away from your home. Good luck.

Ciao, Karen


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QUESTION: Thanks for you advice, Karen. My sister and I actually took them both to the
vet yesterday in separate cat carriers. They were fine when they were at the
vet. They didn't hiss or growl at each other there or on the car ride home.
However, the hissing and growling started as soon as we set the cat carriers
down on the floor at home. We took them both out one at a time as the vet
tech said in the hopes that it would settle them down, but no such luck. I
called the vet tech again and she basically said they would maybe just have to
fight it out. (They did have a fight last night). I don't think that's such a great
idea. I have them in their cat carriers now about five feet away from each
other and Tryx is growling. She also hissed at me when I tried to coax her
into the carrier. Should I try to reintroduce them slowly or let them roam free?
I'm scared by letting them interact with each other that that will just set them
back. And if I don't see any improvements, how long should I leave it before I
ask the vet for help again?

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Hi Carolyn,

Get a product called Feliway Comfort Zone. This mimics cat's happy pheromones and acts like a kitty tranquilizer. Use this stuff and reintroduce them slowly. This takes a little time. Make sure that whatever set them off in the first place isn't around. Follow what it says in the cat intro protocol. This should work. But it will take a week or two. If it doesn't there are certain drugs that will relax your cats to try this again. But I don't think you will need them seeing how they lived together for a while. There will be some hissing before they settle down. Don't worry about it. They will go back to normal. It just won't be overnight.  Good luck.

Ciao, Karen

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I can give advice on cat behavior. I can help about newborn kitten care. I can help with senior cat care. I can answer questions about cat proofing a home or making it cat friendly. I can answer diet questions. I can answer home treatments questions for cats. At present I have 13 cats in home and two ferals outside. And there's always room for one more!

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I have over 40 year's experience with cats. Father was a veterinarian and I assisted him in his work. I have 15 cats at present. Most are shelter or feral rescues. I have one purebred cat. I have done cat rescues and foster care. Some thoughts to carry with you. A Cat's 10 Commandments My life is likely to last 15-20 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful. Give me time to understand what you want of me. Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being. Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your friends, your entertainments. But I have only you. Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me. Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it. Before you swat me, before you strike me, remember that I have teeth that could draw blood. And claws to strike back. And yet I choose not to attack you. If I don't act right then have me checked to see what is wrong. Please take care of me when I grow old. You too will grow old. On the difficult journey, on the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there. Because I love you so. Take a moment today to thank God for your pets. Enjoy and take good care of them. Life would be a much duller, less joyful thing without God's critters. Pass this on.

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