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Expert: - 2/14/2008


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my girlfriend and her 4 year old son recently moved into my home. my female cat is not happy she still demands the same attention which i give to her 99% of the time but she is extremely jealous and now she is peeing on his bed when ever she feels i am paying attention to the baby she sneeks off and pees on his bed. i love my cat dearly and would hate to be forced to get rid of her what can i do help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Hi Vinny,

Are you sure she's jealous? If you are giving her the same attention then I wouldn't say it is that. Most times when cats have a change of litter habits,it's because they are sick. I would take her to be checked by a vet. Also make sure you use a good enzymatic cat urine cleaner. If she can smell her odor she will be tempted to use the same area again. And finally, here's a good product that will help her keep using her litter box. Good luck.

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I can give advice on cat behavior. I can help about newborn kitten care. I can help with senior cat care. I can answer questions about cat proofing a home or making it cat friendly. I can answer diet questions. I can answer home treatments questions for cats. At present I have 13 cats in home and two ferals outside. And there's always room for one more!

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I have over 40 year's experience with cats. Father was a veterinarian and I assisted him in his work. I have 15 cats at present. Most are shelter or feral rescues. I have one purebred cat. I have done cat rescues and foster care. Some thoughts to carry with you. A Cat's 10 Commandments My life is likely to last 15-20 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful. Give me time to understand what you want of me. Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being. Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your friends, your entertainments. But I have only you. Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me. Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it. Before you swat me, before you strike me, remember that I have teeth that could draw blood. And claws to strike back. And yet I choose not to attack you. If I don't act right then have me checked to see what is wrong. Please take care of me when I grow old. You too will grow old. On the difficult journey, on the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there. Because I love you so. Take a moment today to thank God for your pets. Enjoy and take good care of them. Life would be a much duller, less joyful thing without God's critters. Pass this on.

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