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Okay.
So I moved into a house with my cat, Luna. This house had 3 other cats that all got along. Luna and the other female (16 year old) were actually the first ones in the house - Luna was restricted to my bedroom since she hadn't received all her vaccinations yet (she was only 6 months old)...
Around week two I saw she was losing hair on her head and her back a bit. I took her to the vet. They did a fungal culture... nothing. They checked for any kind of dermatitis... nothing. They said maybe stress. She IS a little skittish, and not altogether comfortable with loud noises and such, but I couldn't see her taking off as much hair as she was all by herself.
It's now been a month, and  think I've figured it out. It came to me when I was checking her bald(ish) spots. They had little bite marks within them. Some of them are scratches, some bites. I think the two males might be rough housing with her and biting her - because most of the bites and scratches are on her upper back and neck, which I know is a dominance thing in cats. I know they're rough housing and not fighting because I have 3 roomates (large house) and were all very light sleepers and whenever someone hisses, we hear, and it's hardly ever her (she only hisses when someone tries to eat food with her). However, I still can't understand how they're taking off patches of fur like that. I feel like  I keep exhausting all options, and I don't know what to do. I started to worry that the rest of the cats are stressing her out.
So I decded to lock her in my bedroom at night.
She cries.
She's desperate for some interaction from the other cats, since now she's used to it. And it didn't stop the rough housing either, since now she just plays with them when I'm at work and I come home and there's another patch gone.
I don't know what to do.
And I don't have the money to continually keep taking her back to the vet saying "she lost hair again" only to have them shrug and say "we don't know what to tell you".

I swear, I wish cats could talk.
All I need is the 'okay' from her that she's really not getting hurt by the rest of the cats. She seems like her usual self - she's still affectionate; if anything, she's gotten a little rougher when she and I play. She literally didn't bite me when we played up until 2 weeks ago.

Any advice at all as to what it could be, if you agree with me, or any ideas on what to do?

I appreciate anything you got...

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Hi Jennifer,

Sorry it took so long to get back to you. I had problems with my Internet. It sounds like a classic case of flea allergy. You may not see them on her but the hair loss and bites sure sound like it. Get a really good flea medicine like Advantage for Cats and use it on ALL of them. See what happens in a week or two. I think you will be surprised. And since you have multiple cats I am sending you a link about how you can save money and use the dog tubes of Advantage instead. But make sure it's not the K9 Advantage. That stuff is deadly to cats.
http://www.lisaviolet.com/cathouse/advantage.html
This should work and all will be fine. Good luck.

Ciao, Karen

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I can give advice on cat behavior. I can help about newborn kitten care. I can help with senior cat care. I can answer questions about cat proofing a home or making it cat friendly. I can answer diet questions. I can answer home treatments questions for cats. At present I have 13 cats in home and two ferals outside. And there's always room for one more!

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I have over 40 year's experience with cats. Father was a veterinarian and I assisted him in his work. I have 15 cats at present. Most are shelter or feral rescues. I have one purebred cat. I have done cat rescues and foster care. Some thoughts to carry with you. A Cat's 10 Commandments My life is likely to last 15-20 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful. Give me time to understand what you want of me. Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being. Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your friends, your entertainments. But I have only you. Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me. Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it. Before you swat me, before you strike me, remember that I have teeth that could draw blood. And claws to strike back. And yet I choose not to attack you. If I don't act right then have me checked to see what is wrong. Please take care of me when I grow old. You too will grow old. On the difficult journey, on the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there. Because I love you so. Take a moment today to thank God for your pets. Enjoy and take good care of them. Life would be a much duller, less joyful thing without God's critters. Pass this on.

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