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Expert: - 9/4/2008


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Hi,

I recently adopted 2 persian kittens (8 weeks old), one female and one male, and both are siblings. The female is very outgoing and playful and likes to play with us since the first day we got her, but the male is very the opposite. He does not like to be picked up, or even touched or cuddled. He always tries to get away from us even if we are not touching him. he seems that he does not like us that much. He hides under furniture and chairs where he is not reachable. The moment he sees any of us coming towards him he runs away. He only enjoys playing with his sister or alone.
What can I do to make my male kitten more outgoing like his sister?

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Hi Blaze,

His personality may not be like his sister. You can get him to be friendlier though. get some special treat that he really likes. Roasted chicken is great. Try to tempt him to stay in the room with you with this. You won't get him to come to you right away. Just leave the chicken on one side of the room with you on the other. talk to him quietly and gently. As time progresses and he is used to you move the chicken closer and closer to you. He soon will come and take it from you. You can then try to pet him. He may be gentled and trusting by then. Just remember, he may never be like his sister. He will have his own personality that you will love. Good luck.

Ciao, Karen

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I can give advice on cat behavior. I can help about newborn kitten care. I can help with senior cat care. I can answer questions about cat proofing a home or making it cat friendly. I can answer diet questions. I can answer home treatments questions for cats. At present I have 13 cats in home and two ferals outside. And there's always room for one more!

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I have over 40 year's experience with cats. Father was a veterinarian and I assisted him in his work. I have 15 cats at present. Most are shelter or feral rescues. I have one purebred cat. I have done cat rescues and foster care. Some thoughts to carry with you. A Cat's 10 Commandments My life is likely to last 15-20 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful. Give me time to understand what you want of me. Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being. Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your friends, your entertainments. But I have only you. Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me. Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it. Before you swat me, before you strike me, remember that I have teeth that could draw blood. And claws to strike back. And yet I choose not to attack you. If I don't act right then have me checked to see what is wrong. Please take care of me when I grow old. You too will grow old. On the difficult journey, on the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there. Because I love you so. Take a moment today to thank God for your pets. Enjoy and take good care of them. Life would be a much duller, less joyful thing without God's critters. Pass this on.

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