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I have 2 cats, and last Thursday they had an operation, fixation so they wont have babies.. the females.. after the operation was done, i went i picked them up the i went home.. they were very tired and weak and they went to sleep right away and they didn't eat or drink or do anything just used their bathroom.. they were like this just for 2 or 3 days and now they back to normal eating drinking but still afraid and scared and not as nice as they were, they are kinda mad at us I think, but they are getting better with us as days pass.. the problem is that they were very friendly and they loved each other a lot, they are sisters, so we were soooo happy with that, but since the operation one of them is acting very weird with the other one, she kinda yells at the other one and is afraid of her I guess and doesn't want her to come close to her.. but the other one is very nice to her and she is disappointed with the other cat's reaction towards her so keeps staring at the one who yells and just back off and try to stay away from her.. i really feel so bad for this poor cat that is wondering why her sister is doing that to her.. I think that the cat that yells thinks or believes that the other one is the one who made this cut in her belly and put her in so much pain, she doesn't kno wthat the doctor is the one who made it for her not her sister because they were in the same cage when the woke up from the anesthesia her sister was the first one she saw when she first opened her eyes, thats why she keeps doing weird sounds, yells and kinda scared from the other innocent poor cat.. they are both now like enemies, each one of them stays in a different room and when they see eachother the cat just keep doing weird sounds to the other one till she runs away from her.. its really killing me to see them doing that to each other after they were very nice to each other and caring too.. can you PLEASE help me to get them back to their normal life together??? and start loving and playing with eachother as before??? Hope you will have a solution for that.. Thank you very much...

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Khaled,

I have a few questions to ask that may help me to determine what's going on with the girls. Behavioral changes like those that you are describing aren't entirely normal after spay/neuter surgeries. Normally most cats that are spayed or neutered come home slightly less co-ordinated than normal, but there generally aren't such drastic personality changes so I'm looking for a clearer picture that will help me to help you and your cats get things back on track.


- What part of the world did you have these girls spayed in?

- Did you make sure that both cats were given pain medication prior to waking up from surgery?

- Do you know what type of anesthesia was used during the girls' surgeries?

- Have you considered separating the girls temporarily to avoid fighting?

- Do you have access to a health food store or naturopathic pharmacy?

- Have you tried anything to help these girls get back to themselves? If so what did you try so far?

- Have these girls been tested for chronic feline health issues like feline leukemia, FIV and FIP?

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I am the proud guardian of 5 mixed breed cats ranging from 12 weeks to 13 years old and one purebred ragdoll. I have 20+ years experience working with mixed breed cats from a variety of different situations. I have fostered cats/kittens with special needs/behavioral issues. I have rescued/rehabilitated/re-homed a variety of stray/abused cats. I can offer advice on managing feral cat colonies, rehabilitating strays and finding them forever homes. I can help you to determine whether a cat is stray or feral, there IS a significant difference. Improperly introducing a new cat/kitten can result in aggression between newly introduced cats because cats are territorial by nature and they don't like sudden changes in their environment. To learn more about a peaceful way to introduce a new cat into a home with other cats please check out my previous answers on this subject. Proper nutrition for cats can be confusing, I recommend checking out catinfo.org which was created by a veterinarian (Dr. Lisa Pierson) who takes a common sense approach to explaining feline nutrition. Cat behavior and instincts are different from those of humans, I can help you understand your cat's needs so that you can meet them adequately and have a balanced, psychologically and physically sound kitty. Cats vary in personality, energy level and intelligence, different approaches may be required to achieve results in terms of training and interaction with your feline companion. An intelligent, high energy cat must be kept busy or they will make their own fun. I am NOT a licensed veterinarian and I can't offer medical advice. If your cat is ill/injured my advice is always the same: get prompt medical treatment provided by a veterinarian. If finances are an issue I will try to find resources in your area that can help with medical costs or make other choices to ensure the welfare of your cat.

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I have fostered feral and stray cats, rehabilitated and homed cats that many people recommended euthanasia for. I am willing to make an effort to do the research and ask questions because I care enough to find solutions to behavioral problems rather than giving up. I have an interest in the use of alternative therapies to help provide the best possible care for all cats and I can say in all honesty that I've seen some incredible things happen for some incredible cats and their human caregivers when the right alternative therapeutic modality is used by a qualified veterinarian with expertise and experience in the field.

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I've earned my diploma as a veterinary assistant with honors.

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